Why are people like this

I got into a fight with my boyfriend and told him he’s being abusive and it makes it harder for me to communicate when he’s actively trying to intimate me anytime I say anything and his response was “well it’s not fair that I have to listen to you. Why do I have to listen to you? That’s not fair to me. What if I don’t want to hear you complain? If you don’t complain, then there wouldn’t be any problems.”

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Why are people like this? Or more specifically why are men like this?

I got laid off and still haven’t found a job. I feel stuck and slightly afraid. I know I need to leave. I was actually planning on leaving him, but right when I was going to end things for good, I got laid off. Bills fucked me up and left me with very little money. If I had a job again I swear I will leave him, but right now I’m stuck. I have to keep living with him or else I will literally be homeless.

I have no family and none of my friends live near me. My best friend even moved out of the country.

I’m so angry at myself for ever getting myself involved with a guy like this. I know I got manipulated a lot especially early on and now I’m stuck with this guy.

It pisses me off… I wish there weren’t people like this in the world at all. What the fuck is wrong with people….

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kat Dating January 21, 2026 at 3:24 pm 0 0