"I met this chick and I feel nothing at all."

Been there. Done that. With every fucking chick I've ever met. I don't want to meet anymore!

Feeling nothing for a chick doesn't make you a loser... Being with a chick that you feel nothing for, have no interest in, and don't want to be with makes you a loser. It makes you a loser because someone other than you is controlling your life. You're only with the chick because someone else thinks you should be with a chick.

Maybe that's not your situation, but it has always been mine. Not being interested is not a crime... Nor is it morally wrong. If some assclown wants to call me gay or whatever because I'm just not interested in being with people that are of no interest to me, so be it. I'd much rather be a "label" than in a relationship I'm clawing at the walls to get out of.

Sorry for the tangent, but this is an issue that really grates me.

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anonymous 6 years ago

Oh baby boo it looks like you're in the wrong field. (sarcasm included). Perhaps you gotta find something beyond relationships - career, hobbies, interests, friends - live a more rounded and well balanced life. Also, broaden and enrich your life in different levels of relationships - friends to go out with, friends who you rant to, running and gym partners, good housemates, coffee companions, work colleagues etc. It's so sad how most people are so hellbent on this topic, it's like the forefront of their life! I promise you, you're not a cold person, just misunderstood by the mainstream masses. I mean, everyone should be given the freedom and choices to live life on their own terms. I hope you find yours - without judgement and all acceptance whether it is solitary, surrounded by people 24/7 or a bit of both. You choose, and whenever you're ready - it is your life after all. Good luck.

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anonymous 6 years ago

Boohoo. I'm a guy and I have all the privileges in a male dominated society and I'm still whinging like a woman. Get grip, Romeo.

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anonymous 6 years ago

p.s. I'm the first responder, not the OP.

I didn't say that I was a heartbreaker, I said that I've never met a chick that I've ever felt anything for. I don't care if people think that's funny... I don't care if people think that's sad... I don't care if people think I'm missing out... I don't care if people think I'm losing!

I don't care! Anything and everything is better than being with someone you just don't want to be with. Okay, almost everything. Being under unlawful surveillance is not better... It's just not worse either. They're both equally undesirable... Relationships with people you're not interested in are just a bit easier to avoid.

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anonymous 6 years ago