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Things I can never share to my bff

Things I can never share to my bff

Okay so, I have this friend group and they're all my bff's. Recently I found out one of my best friend lets call her blue so, blue had a crush on one of our friend lets call him black. Black is also part of our circle, he doesn’t know yet because blue is afraid to tell him because their friendship might get ruin. Blue only told 4 people in our group because we begged her to tell us her crush. Blue told us she had a crush on him since December and we I/we totally supported her of course because we've been bff since the first day of high-school. But, the fvcked up thing is I liked blue for almost 4 months now, I usually never tell anyone about my crush so I never told them. He's not that handsome though and he had personality that I don't like but I know he is a good person and he's looking really good since that day I had feelings for him. I sometimes get jealous and I dont know what to do. I want uncrush him and thats what im figuring it out right now. I just prayed that this is just a silly crush.

And also, this is crazy because I liked Blue before hahaha. But, now I hope that this feelings wont last longer, pray for me.

So, thanks for reading, this is really my first time posting here and I know she will never see this so I felt safe venting her. By the way, I told one of my best friend who is also her best friend and part of our circle about this and she is also shocked as h3ll because he's not that attractive to be honest hahaha. Also, black is really a clingy person and he's just so comfortable that he randomly lay on my thighs or lean on my shoulder and he really teases me a lot and I think im really liking him but I hope this is just an infatuation. And also, black liked someone else and we know that because he always rant to us how he liked thag girl who's her former classmates but he cant confess because they're friends. So I know i never really have a chance but I dont know he's kinda giving sugnals to me or am I just assuming everything. I really need help, what should I do?

Sorry for my grammar guys, English isn't my first language hehe.
Star Friends January 12, 2026 at 7:08 am 0
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So, from now on im gonna post my rant here or comment my rant here about him XD
Start 3 weeks ago
So that’s really complicated. So you like black and blue likes him too.
Have you seen signs that he likes you? Like hanging out with you more than others, looking at you (staring).

Something similar but not the same happened to me last year but uh I was the one in the middle. So two guys liked me they never told me but I knew. They were really close like best friends but they never told each other that they liked me. Now this year we don’t have any classes at all together and I drifted away from both of them. The worst part is one of those guys best friend likes me now. Uh so don’t end up like me idk how you’re gonna tell blue but you’ll have to confess one day.
Sorry for ranting on your rant but idk if this helped
anonymous 3 weeks ago
Omg, hi anonymous I didnt expect anyone to read this rant and its okay, thank you for sharing yours.

Yes, I know I need to confess one day they always tell me that feelings need to be confessed in order to lose the feelings for that person because keeping to yourself will just grow more. I honesty believe that before until i confessed to my last situationship before and it didnt stopped there so I stopped believing it.

I have this urge to confess to him but I'm afraid that our friendship may be ruin. I also want to tell blue but im so shy to tell her because she likes him too but I know we'll just gonna laugh about it because she is chill and she told me that she now likes someone else but still have a little attraction towards black. I knew blue she wouldn't be mad at me or whatever because we're supper close and we're not like other friends that will you know end a friendship over crushes but, im just shy. I really really wanna tell her, maybe next week I'll tell her :)
Star 3 weeks ago
By the way, I wanna rant again about him. I dont know if im just delutional or he's like giving me signs. Because he acts like he KINDA like me? He's not acting like himself recently like he still teases me but its sounding like a little flirty or maybe thats just me assuming because I like him? I think its just me, but earlier we're eating lunch together in my house because our house is like the hangout house and we're at the table he's playing music on his phone "perfect" by ed sheeran and he sang the chorus then when he said the word "perfect" he hold my hand and looked at me then he quickly changes it to "no one" meaning no one is perfect. I acted like nothing happened but I was screaming inside. He's like super closed with my mother, my mom used to tease us both. I think I like him even more fvck. I really really need help T_T
Star 3 weeks ago
Hi it’s anonymous from the last rant.
So yk how he started singing perfect then held your hand it’s a HUGE sign that he likes you. When a guy likes you sometimes they might look at you when a love song comes up but this is even better! :) quick question was blue there? Also when guys like you they’ll tease you in a playful way. That’s happened to me multiple times.

I think if your gonna confess to him, you should tell blue about your feelings. If she’s chill then it should be good. I’m shy too so I get it. It’s not easy to just go to a friend and be like “oh I like your crush”. YOU GOT THIS GIRL!
I hope this helped give you more reassurance cause whenever I like a guy even if all signs point to yes SOMETIMES you just need to hear it from someone that they actually like you. (I know this might be too much but can I ask you abt a guy-If you see this) :)
Anonymous from before. :) 3 weeks ago
Hiii anonymous, I finally told blue about and she's very cool with. She said that its just a silly little crush and we laughed about it. So, something happened today o my. Cause like after our class in the morning blue, black, me, and our other best friend who I told first that I like him, we're in the mall. We stayed there for a while because I was eating ice cream and he ask me if he can taste it so I agree because thats just normal to our friend group sharing foods. Then after we headed to our house because as you know our house is the 'hangout house' of the group they always in here after class. We all decided to walk since my spend my last money on the ice cream and out house is a walking distance from the mall. So as we're walking blue and my other friend is infront of us while me and him js behind them because my feet hurts so much from standing I just felt so tired so I complained. He then stopped and said to me casually that he can carry me like piggy back ride and I was shock but I just laughed at him because he's also carrying his bag so he said that I should carrt his bag then he'll carry me, I declined oh my because I dknt want him tk carry because even though our house is a walking distance its like a 20-25 minutes walk. So we continued walking when we're almost at our house my shoulder hurts because of my bag and I complained to them again and out of nowhere he snatch my bag from me what thr h3ll??? He never actually do that to any of us neither is offering to carry someone because they're tired og walking. I feel like he's not acting like himself because he usually laugh at is in situations like that, so I was sk shocked.

But that time blue didnt know it yet because I told her in the afternoon and that happened during noon. So, when I finally told blue she even told me that maybe I have a chance because among us or among our friend group I'm the one he's giving extra attention, especially when he offered to carry me and carry my bag because he never did that to anyone before. But, I am so afraid to ruin our friendship and also I knoe he have a crush on someone else's. He even texted me hours ago that his crush is talking to him so, I know I have no chance :> I really think I'm just delusional hahaha.

Also one of the reason I didnt accept her offer to carry me because its so awkward there are many people on the streets. Some parts of me believed the maybe just MAYBE I have a tiny chance but also I dont want that tk happen because it may or may not ruin our friendship :< But im pretty sure he doesn’t like me so nothing to worrt about hahaha.

Also, its very okay for you to ask. You can ask me anything XD (if you also see this). Also I'm sorrt if I replied super late I'm just super busy at school :]
Star 3 weeks ago
Also, I forgot to mention, remember when I spent my last money on tbe ice cream. After our lunch we have to go back to school then I literally have no money left because I spent my allowance in our school project hahaha. So, I asked my mom for coins but unfortunately she didn't have coins with her. My mom even joked that He (black) should pay for my transport since he have a lot of money. And you know what happened? He ended up paying for it ^^ oh my gosh I maybe too delusional. I think I need help :>
Star 3 weeks ago
Also, I forgot to mention, remember when I spent my last money on tbe ice cream. After our lunch we have to go back to school then I literally have no money left because I spent my allowance in our school project hahaha. So, I asked my mom for coins but unfortunately she didn't have coins with her. My mom even joked that He (black) should pay for my transport since he have a lot of money. And you know what happened? He ended up paying for it ^^ oh my gosh I maybe too delusional. I think I need help :>
Star 3 weeks ago
Hey it’s me again. It’s fine that your busy at a school, I am too. It feels like he acts like he likes you and gives extra attention but he already told you he likes someone. To me I think he might like both. He might like the other girl more but still has feelings for you. Or maybe he hasn’t even realized that he likes you. Cause all the signs point to yes but he still has feelings for another girl.
I’d say don’t confess to him yet cause he likes this other girl, when you get confermation that he doesn’t like her anymore or something like that then tell him. Idk if that helps but uh yeah.
anonymous again :) 3 weeks ago
Also I want to ask for your advice cause there’s this guy call him Red… So I’ve known him since grade 2. We were closer in 2 but drifted after that. We still talked every now and then but not a lot. Now we’re in the same class and he’s like nonchalant and stuff but also funny. I always catch him looking at me and whenever he gets a chance he’ll sit or stand next to me in what he thinks is discreet. Whenever we talk he makes jokes or tries to get to know me. Our conversations are never boring. Sometimes I see his friend group look at me. One time I was walking behind him and his friend while we were going into class and his friend noticed me and started giggling like crazy. So I haven’t told my friends that I like him but they ship me all the time with him. He never really says anything though he’ll just sigh or nothing. If it was any other girl it would be different. Also one time it was the end of the day and barely anyone was there, Red and his friend were talking and his friend was looking straight at me bro. Today we were doing a fundraiser for school and we’re at the same table. He decided to sit right next to me. I could see him trying to look at me.
Also he told his type to my friend, long black hair and country where I’m from. There’s only like a few girls in my grade where I’m specifically from but I’m the only one with long hair. Something I’m worried about is one of his best friends and other friend used to like me last year for like 2 years and Idk if Red would still like me if his friends did before. I know it doesn’t really matter if they don’t like me anymore but yeah. Sorry for making it really long. Pls let me know what you think.
anonymous again :) 3 weeks ago
Hi again anonymous, maybe your right he doesnt realized he like me yet. But don't worry I have no plan of confessing my feeling for him. Either he like me or not, I will not ruin the friendship inhave with him:>>
Start 3 weeks ago
For your question, I have a experienced. Way back to my 7th grade There's this guys (call him pineapple) I like and I guess he like me too though he never said it to me, there are signs and his friends also shipped us together. And then, later on I heard that one of his friends liked me and that friend of him is my friend, we're not really close bit since we are classmates we always talk a lot. After I found out that his friend liked me I was a little bit worried thag he'd stopped liking me because he's also the type of guy who'd value friendship over love. But, he didn't stop liking me and his friend already know that I dont like him so he moved on from me eventually. So even though his friends like me, he never stopped liking me. We were a situationship for almost two years, a mutual understanding but it ended because I dont want to be more than what we have, because I'm more focused on my academics.

So I believe Red would still like you, even if one if his friends likes you before, that can't be the reason he cant like you. Also his friend USED TO like you meaning its in the past, since they're friends I believe he already know that Red likes you when his friend group shipped you together, maybe hja friend even shipped you with him now. Also, you never liked his friend before and I'm sure he already accepted it and moved on. If Red is showing signs that he like you then trust me he does. His friends tease him when you walk behind him, he never say anything or deny anything that he likes you, he always want to get closer to you whenever he had the chance, he keep staring at you, and most of all why would he tell your friends his type and its not just coincidence that he is describing. Girl trust me he like you, thats what pineapple's doing before :)
Star 3 weeks ago
For your question, I have a experienced. Way back to my 7th grade There's this guys (call him pineapple) I like and I guess he like me too though he never said it to me, there are signs and his friends also shipped us together. And then, later on I heard that one of his friends liked me and that friend of him is my friend, we're not really close bit since we are classmates we always talk a lot. After I found out that his friend liked me I was a little bit worried thag he'd stopped liking me because he's also the type of guy who'd value friendship over love. But, he didn't stop liking me and his friend already know that I dont like him so he moved on from me eventually. So even though his friends like me, he never stopped liking me. We were a situationship for almost two years, a mutual understanding but it ended because I dont want to be more than what we have, because I'm more focused on my academics.

So I believe Red would still like you, even if one if his friends likes you before, that can't be the reason he cant like you. Also his friend USED TO like you meaning its in the past, since they're friends I believe he already know that Red likes you when his friend group shipped you together, maybe hja friend even shipped you with him now. Also, you never liked his friend before and I'm sure he already accepted it and moved on. If Red is showing signs that he like you then trust me he does. His friends tease him when you walk behind him, he never say anything or deny anything that he likes you, he always want to get closer to you whenever he had the chance, he keep staring at you, and most of all why would he tell your friends his type and its not just coincidence that he is describing. Girl trust me he like you, thats what pineapple's doing before :)
Star 3 weeks ago
Thanks you :) for the help .
(I forgot to mention earlier not that it really matters but Red used to like me but never confessed way back when we were kids and he used to act a similar way to now)

I think Black might like you too, he finds ways to touch you (not in a weird way), he tries to make smile, acts playful and litterally sang a love song to you even if he likes that other girl you might be his first pick and he just doesn’t want you to know. a You know valentines is coming up soon, maybe see if there’s any signs then. I hope it all works out :>
anonymous :) 2 weeks ago
Your welcome, right now I also hope thag he like me back but if he doesnt then we'll stay as friends that way I can still be with gim. Also this oast few days he's getti g clingy, I dont wanna assume but I already did hahahaha. I really hipe things work out soon because I dont wanna assume and looked stupid :)) Yes, valentines is coming. I hope things work out for us!! Im sure Red likes you girl!! I really hope things work up for the two of you!!
Star 2 weeks ago
I just wanna rant here hahahaha. So uhrmm he reveal to our hc accidently that he's attracted to someone else. Cause y'know that he likes someone and he still do but he just said that he's attracted to someone by accident because he though that we know but we didnt. Okay, uhmm I don't wanna assume here but oh my I wonder who's that person. Also, lately he's acting very clingy towards me which is never like him, he doesnt like clingy people. And earlier we were eating at our house, after that he felt tired so we're siting next to each other and he grabbed my arm so he can rest he's head what the hell. But well maybe I'm just delusional hahaha >_<
Star 2 weeks ago
Hi thanks :) It’s me again
Anyways gaaaannng it has to be you. He’s becoming so clingy around you. He probably accepted his feelings for you, and realized what he was looking for was right infront of him the WHOLE TIME! Look at all the signs be so for real he likes you.

Even if he still has feelings for the other girl. There’s this saying I’ve heard of it’s like if you fall for someone but fall for an another person the first love wasn’t real. So if he liked that girl, but now likes you then the first girl and him weren’t meant to be. I know that’s a little cringy but you know what I mean. ;)

Also tiny update. I was walking to leave school, I turned around and saw behind me but not close by was Red and one of his friends I guess call this guy orange talking while they were walking. orange was looking at me and red was avoiding eye contact. Then Orange came up behind me and called my name multiple times. I didn’t hear him until I turned around again. Just so you know I haven’t talked to orange in a long time(extra detail there was rumours that he liked me). I asked him what do you want. He just asked me random questions like oh you were at the fundraiser right. Idek why. The. He just walked away but I turned around and Red was no longer walking behind me from far away. Sorry for ranting again.
You’re not delusional but I think I might be the thing I was talking abt was prob nothing •__•
Anonymous again :) 2 weeks ago
Hiii againnn! So he finally confessed to that girl and its because I persuade him. Well, he always said he wanna confessed a long time ago so I said thag why not now because what is he waiting for? So he did and he just got friendzone T_T and then he said that he no longer have feelings for the girl because he realized something. Maybe he really do like me? Hahahaha

Omg, maybe they're talking about you? Why would orange called you and ask the most random thing ever if he knew you were at the fundraiser. You're not delusional girly, Red is showing signs that he likes you of course you're gonna came up to a conclusion and he isnt denying anything right :>
Star 2 weeks ago
Girl it has to be you. I’m sorry for him, since he got friendszoned but that gives you a chance :)
He said that he realized something after confessing to her (I KNEW IT!) Maybe he got friendzonex because the girl thought he liked you. You know when you like someone but they like someone else type shi. I guess I’m going on abt random situations but you never know. If he was acting like you described everywhere maybe she noticed his feelings before he even did.For example the guys who liked me last year one of them held back for a little cause they thought I liked the other guy who likes me. This might not be what actually happened BUT what really matters is that he doesn’t have feelings for her anymore. Now it’s gonna be focused on you.

I think he likes you though maybe he’ll come to his senses and confess to you already :) I hope for the best
Again from anonymous :)
anonymous:) 1 week ago
Hii, long time no see here, I've been very busy XD. Maybe, I hope se haha. How are you with red now?
Starr 1 week ago
Wsg :) I guess it’s been a while. Any way things have been Alr with Red.
Today Red and his friends with presenting a project for drama , and every pose they did Red would avoid my eye contact. What I mean is he would look at me for a second then look away(not slick bud). Then later in the day we were being put into random groups for science and I was put in a group with his friend I guess let’s call him Forehead. So forehead stared right at Red after he saw the groups on the board since forehead would be in a group with me . Then later when we’re doing the project I could see Red looking from across the classroom, he looked very bored even tho he was in a group with two girls. I feel like things like this always happen something related to me comes up and his friends look/say smth to him. I might just be crazy cause I like him tho :(

Soo how’s you and black ;) anything new :D
anonymous :D 7 days ago
Oh my, hiii girl. I just know thay he wanna be in the same group with you!! And I think he's avoiding eye contact with you because he's shy or awkward. Cause you know when you like someone it fells so awkward.

I haven't open this website so much because we're so busy with dance practice. Oh my gosh, our school have a lot of dance competition im so tired of it. Anyways, you already knew that my friends always stays at our house every after class. As always we stayed at my room and then we endee up sleeping because we're tired. So, my other girl friend is laying horizontally and me, black, and my other friend is laying vertically. Im at the very edge of the bed and beside me is black and I know I move so much when I sleep. Because of that I nearly fall from the bed but then luckily he caught my just in time and he pulled me back. He pulled my arn and leg and I didnt even know how because he's asleep as I am. Also, I was shocked. I woke up because of that hahahaha. I dont really know how he noticed that I am falling and then after that he went back to sleep wth? Still now, im still wondering hahaha ><
Star 4 days ago
Hi againnn it’s been a little bit. Maybe he did want to be in a group with me ;)
Anyways that’s low key cute. Reminds me of a movie or tv show moment like yk. I think he likes you.
Catching you before you fall while half asleep is tuff and romantic at the same time. I hope it works out for the best :)
anonymous:) 2 days ago
Hiii, I've also been thinking about it ><. Also, it was my birthday yesterday and he got me home made flower that's color purple (my favourite color) with LED lights and a cute pink teddy bear oh my gosh!!! I was literally speechless, it was lunch time yesterday my friends came to our house to surprise me with foods, he also bought me foods and thkse gifts. I'm like blushing but I cant make them see thag, I feel my whole body heating up!! Lately I noticed he always give me his jacket and cap whenever its cold, hot, when we're outside or when he just feel like it. I am really starting to believe that he likes me too :>

I also hope that everything works between you and Red. I feel like he just need a little courage to talk to you!! Its always valentines day!
Star 1 hour ago
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