old "friend" aka bully

Growing up I had this "friend." He was an asshole and it seemed like the feeling was mutual. He always treated me like I was this loud, rotten, rude, spoiled, horrible person when I wasn't any of those things. He, however would go to people's houses and break shit and lie about it. Would always call people fat and other names just trying to upset them. Would just randomly spout off hurtful shit. So, his shit of treating me like I was the ass was kind of projection on him.

He had shit parents and everyone spoiled him to compensate. The result? He was a sissy who was all about trying to act tough when he himself couldn't handle anything and wasn't ever used to not getting his way. I had arguably worse parents and less opportunity than his ass, no one helped me, and we both kind of turned out opposites. He would always try to fight me and would randomly hit me. The last couple times he tried to, I had already gone through puberty and had always been bigger and stronger than him, I was able to put him in a headlock. I could have kicked his ass at any time, and he would have cried like a bitch.

Now, as adults. I live a modest, comfortable, stable life. One that was never supposed to have ever been a reality for me, and I'm grateful for everything. He? He is resentful that all the fame and grandiose shit he expected out of life didn't happen. He's the type who basically hates the world and his life, because he now realizes his childhood was as good as it was ever going to get for him. I meanwhile had a horrible, horrific childhood and can finally actually take care of myself and have what I want for a change.

I found out (we stopped being friends LOONNG ago) that he is working at a Planet Fitness and supposedly he helps people lose weight. I laughed when I saw that shit. He was and is a fucking bully. Not someone who feels bad for previous mistakes and is trying to make right. He used to call relatives, (including me before I lost around 30 pounds) fat, always fucking made fun of others and exploited what he saw as shortcomings. I refuse to believe anything with him has changed.

The one good thing is he is getting older and if he were going to have had offspring, he probably would have by now. So, thankfully that bloodline shouldn't continue. He would have made a horrible father.

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anonymous Relationships September 12, 2025 at 2:20 pm 0 0