Tone Policing

Really fucking funny how people perceive what you've been through strictly based on your tone isn't it? You sit there on Reddit, throw out a few stories that they feel entitled to give you advice for, and you get a ton of people telling you how inspiring you are. You tell them to go to Hell because you've tried it all or wouldn't be qualified for it anyway, and all of a sudden it's not inspiring anymore.

Really drives the point home about how little people actually give a fuck about helping others or hard work. And yes, that's what happened. Overcoming losing over a decade of my life because "teehehehehehehehehehe some cute naive cheerleader decided I deserved to be lynched (your deities, therapists, have used the word 'lynched')" was inspiring until it wasn't. Apparently somehow it's possible to be arrogant about being effectively poor. That's how far feminists will take victimhood. They'll accuse you of being arrogant for trying to make life work while working on a fucking potato and some hardware you got on a contract when life was slightly more stable. Clearly means you're rich because you were able to swallow their shit at one point JUST ENOUGH to get nice shit.

And be basically homeless and have enough to file for a fucking LLC? Woah, slow down fucking Elon Musk. Where the fuck did you get that $50 from? Why the fuck aren't you teaching business at Brown or fucking Harvard? Huh? That's a fucking fortune right there. Especially if working for yourself is likely the only way you'll ever get by. You need to stop being so fucking ungrateful. I bet you're also arrogant about low fee accounts from your local credit union too. Fucking boujee over here avoiding BoA and Chase with CCs that have far fewer resources, but also far fewer fees and more flexibility.

And the difference? Tone.

Accept the idea that you can't get laid entirely because you need to change your clothes, hit the gym, and accept 4'10" 300 lb gremlins, and you're cool. You'll never be an incel even if you're involuntarily not getting laid.

Throw their hypocritical bullshit back in their face? You're now an incel and they'll be a perpetual victim. They could be making six figures and you could be effectively homeless, but simply existing in the same timeframe as them is practically fucking rape. Maybe SA. Who knows? it's feminism. They might even find some other equivalent angle to claim they're a victim. That's kinda their thing.

Oh and you're effectively homeless, busted your ass through lief and college, and know how to program? Stop being so fucking arrogant you fucking technofascist. Who the fuck do you think you are being able to write a script that says more than "Hello, World" and trying to find a way to make some money off it so you can fucking survive? How fucking arrogant can you be? Seriously? What the actual fuck? There are women only making six figures out there while men are making seven or eight with far more responsibility. Have some fucking perspective you poor ass technofascist! Acknowledge real suffering! Your PTSD doesn't mean shit. Your borderline homelessness and how you came up as a minority doesn't mean shit! Know your fucking place! We're too busy making up stories about schools full of kids that supposedly fight weekly (not as super common as some rich people would lead you to believe) AND people who work 26+ hour long shifts at McDonalds (even though they often hire people for 15-30 hours/week, where 30 hours/wk is borderline FT under Obamacare).

But luckily they know what I've been through better than me.

They know what I've tried and what I've accomplished better than me.

I need to let go over someone being absolutely adorably naive even if it set me back over a decade. That's life. Not for rich people, but probably is life for the poor unwashed masses. That seems like what they deserve.

They know the solution better than me, even if for one reason or another beyond my control it won't apply to me.

Can't imagine the burden. Shit must be hard.

I mean here I am literally at the bottom of the barrel barely getting by and relying heavily on my family until at least SSDI kicks in, but possibly for the rest of my life. The fuck do I know though? My PTSD gives me superpowers or some feminist bullshit. Those super powers include barely being able to tolerate anyone, having to keep my mouth shut 24/7 regardless of what I want to say, constantly reminding myself people aren't a threat, and so on. Some really fucking amazing super powers. You people figured this shit out.

And the best part? The absolutely fucking best part?

All my life growing up I was told to stop being so quiet because people couldn't read my mind.

The moment I say anything other than I wish I could fart sunshine and rainbows like feminists, women, or the more fortunate people don't want to hear what I say. They go as far as trying to shut me out, mock me, and tell me to go away. But roles reversed I'm supposed to thank them and ask them for more.

I really don't give a fuck what happens anymore. I'm demonstrably not a threat to anyone other than myself. Anyone other than me gets harmed it's feminists causing problems. I've barely got the resources to survive.

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anonymous Political March 03, 2026 at 11:09 am 0 0