op, maybe u should talk to him abt this, a main part of relationships is abt communicating right? good luck

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anonymous 1 hour ago

Okay OP disagree with the comment because a relationship is about more then that. Just noted a few things you want him to go to gym say hes fat but wont go with him yourself?... maybe you are unmotivated too... next you said you arent in love seem to have contempt even... why are you with him? I dont get it either you either think hes husband material or you don't. You have been with him a while. I can't work women out because I myself I'm fit, no children, i am tall pretty good looking i think but ive seen guys fat, like not particularly bright get girls I probably would be rejected by and then after 6 months or a year are like omg this guy is a loser... but when im with a girl that long its usually me who leaves because usually I just think I've given them a go when i really shouldn't have and they only got worse rather than better as i hoped. But often at first I'm rejected. I cant work it out its like these guys get acceoted at first but rejected later when they het figured out I'm the opposite. The female mind is strange with their attraction. But then i know also really good looking guys who seem to get girls its bizarre

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anonymous 28 minutes ago