tiger parents

He is too irrational and hot-tempered. When I was a child I was always scared to speak up because I felt he would be disappointed in me if I went against him. Then he goes and complains that I'm too quiet, I don't speak and that I'm not going to make it like this. True, well whose fault is that do you think? Do you think I want to be like that? And now that I'm trying to better myself, to tell him things when I don't think it's right (and it's not that much), even when I know he's not gonna be happy about it, he's so offended, so angry about it -I can't get a word in and then I just resort to not replying anymore because I don't want to sour things further. So at that point, what the hell -what was the point of me trying to speak up? Like you are trying to get into a partnership with someone, it should be equal and there should be a measure of respect, even if they are stupid -you're not going to point at their face and say they are right? You want their stuff. But if I say that you will act all arrogant and be like I can do without. Come on. But I want to help and ask you to be more moderate but for you that's weak, that irrational? And now I'll have to suck it up and endure the cold shoulder just to satisfy your ego. Like seriously. If I don't I know I will regret it when our relationship is mended. And honestly, it goes without saying that you should see a real professional! I AM A STUDENT. I know only the theory. Even if I'm good at it. But I feel you will look down on me if I say it. So yeah. I'm seriously considering just finding work with someone else once I graduate. Less fighting. It's too tiring.

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anonymous Other September 23, 2025 at 12:32 pm 0 0