silent treatment

i am in a long distance relationship. sometimes when my bf and i would have arguments, he wouldnt talk to me but he would still send me pics and all. last week, we had an argument again. he went zero contact. no pics, no nothing. his location was turned off too. fuckin wild. i thought he was dead. i was so fuckin worried.

thankfully, i have a friend in the same country as my bf and i was able to convinve my friend to call my bf just to check if someone would answer. and wouldnt you know it, my bf did answer my friend's call. it was great knowing he was alive but it was a really hard stab in the chest to find out i was just being ignored.

my bf may have had an idea that the call wasnt an accident as my friend said. bc after a few hours, he messaged me and apologized and just said he needs some breathing room.

it took him a week to say that. i got worried over nothing. hope he's not cheating nor anything. i trust him enought o believe he wont cheat. but idk if he wants to break up or what. i just dont know.

while he's away, ive also been thinking. is this really the type of relationship i wanna be in? no. not at all. i know im settling. i probably shouldnt

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anonymous Dating March 29, 2025 at 8:59 am 0 0