Role reversal

My husband says he is a leader, a man and has a purpose which would help our family but its not showing. When i met him, he had his own apartment, car, he seemed independent taking care of his own and was entrepreneur. I should of looked closer which was my mistake. He got a loan to get his apartment, his buisness wasnt paying anything.

Anyways i got with him unknowing, silly me i should of checked..but for a whole 6 years He never paid any bills nor worked to help me out. The sad part about it is he had 2 jobs stayed for only like 3 to 4 month on each and still never helped me with bills. I do anything for him, even work so he could get on his feet which was what i was doing but little do i know he was just getting comfortable riding the dependent "mommy provide" train. So built up frustration has set in. I got in a situation where i was inbetween jobs and had no money. He still didnt come through and worked when i was trying to get on my feet so my poor account went ...you guessed it Negative!! But he was not worried, he just used all my credit cards to get food, gas n stuff. I couldn't even pay rent but my brother thank God was able to help me with money which really should of been my husband!!!!!!!!! Im not married to my brother!!!!. The other sad and pitiful part about this is i told my husband i dont know if ill have enough money for rent. He tells me it will be alright like he doing somthing lol. The first of the month has past, he never came up to me to tell me " bae did you have enough money?? Bae whats going on with the rent? Bae the rent? " no concern!!! Yeah he said it will be ok alright cuz he knows Mommy bae will find a wag and provide like i always do. At this point i have 3 dependents in my home. Out of frustration i showed him a youtube video of a woman who talked about how she was forced to become masculine because her husband was doing this. After he watched it oh...he got HOT!! Threatened to leave and is currently not speaking to me at all and decided to sleep on the couch.........lol all because i just wanted him to help me with bills when i was down. Thats so sad. Im so glad i dont have kids with him. Honestly now that i look back in the oast at everything our arguments, i married a mid range narcissist. Lovely.

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anonymous Relationships February 03, 2025 at 10:40 pm 0 0