Please decide bro...

I am so pissed off and i don't know where to go so im going here. Me and my ex broke up around 7months ago, and i miss(ed) him a lot and just prayed for him to come back. Well, he did two days ago and he told me all about how me missed me and how there were so many things that reminded him of me blah blah blah. Then today i find out from my friend, who knows my ex very well, that they were talking last wednesday and upon mentioning that i have been like crying because i miss my ex, my ex told my friend "oh i would go back to her in a heartbeat! I miss her too!" Cute, right? Wellllll.....
I found then out that he had said that, but like a few days or like a week before he had been talking to another girl, but she rejected him. And also how it apperantly it's a big turn-off that i am a picky eater amongst some other things that he felt so unsure of. So this has sent major red-flag signals in my head and the more i think about it, the more i am pissed off.
I loved this man so much when we first dated, then he left me a random tuesday because he is doing bad mentally and couldnt handle a relationship. Which i can get. But maybe dont lovebomb someone and be the one to ask for a relationship if you dont know what you want/what you're doing, you know?

And especially try not to run back to me when there apperantly are so many things about me that you dont want to have in a relationship. Like the fact that i want to be monogamous but he seems "intrigued" to try polyamory, and he doesnt want to "be someone he isn't". Then why crawl back to me, hm?

i might be blowing things out of propotion, but me and all my friends agree that he might not be as good for me as i think, unless he has a damn good explination as to why he is being like this. Like i have been used before, i have been having my trust broken NUMEROUS TIMES, and i am just done. I am so dissapointed, i fucking hate the fact that he has to be like this because he was such a lovely partner back then, but i am NOT about to get into something and just be led on and left with a severe case of broken heart syndrome.

Public reminder: Men. Aint. Shit.

Sincerely, a pissed off heartbroken girl.

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Pauline Relationships April 30, 2025 at 7:31 am 0 0