You match with someone who you liked mostly out of desperation.
Hey. What do you like to do for fun?
(Day and a half later) I like most things. Crime dramas and Marvel.
What's your favorite series?
(Two days later) Don't have one.
And usually here is where I'd give up. Clearly the other person is not trying or truly interested and it's all about them. Hell, even getting more than three words is a stretch with low effort ass profiles.
Then if you match with a really good looking person they aren't going to respond at all or engage.
You keep getting let down by this to where you're pretty much swiping on anyone. Then you get uncomfortable when you end up matching with some scary looking piece of trash who you wouldn't even look at if you saw them at Walmart.
anonymousFunny September 08, 2025 at 4:49 pm00
And anyone who advertises mental illness on their profile. Shut the fuck up. You are not special.
Plenty of is have been abused. Plenty of us struggle mentally. The only thing is the majority of people aren't so full of shit that we make it our identity and advertise it to people. Like I would never fucking tell someone I never met who I was in a cult that still has me fucked up in a lot of ways. Would any sane person not be put off by hearing that shit right out the gate? anonymous 6 hours ago
"I was in a horrific cult that gave me CPTSD that I still at times struggle with. Lets trauma bond."
Does that sound like something a stable or desirable person would say? Would you wanna go out for drinks with someone who is going to tell exaggerated sob stories where they up anything that happened to them to 10, because they want to pretend mental health buzzwords apply to them when they don't? anonymous 6 hours ago
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Plenty of is have been abused. Plenty of us struggle mentally. The only thing is the majority of people aren't so full of shit that we make it our identity and advertise it to people. Like I would never fucking tell someone I never met who I was in a cult that still has me fucked up in a lot of ways. Would any sane person not be put off by hearing that shit right out the gate?
anonymous 6 hours ago
Does that sound like something a stable or desirable person would say? Would you wanna go out for drinks with someone who is going to tell exaggerated sob stories where they up anything that happened to them to 10, because they want to pretend mental health buzzwords apply to them when they don't?
anonymous 6 hours ago