Absolutely not

Nobody controls my life except me.

You want a relationship with me? Great. Get ready to accept:

My appearance.

My way of expressing myself.

My profession.

My interests.

My priorities.

I'm not some sad little 23-year-old hungry for a father for a baby or a way out of Mommy's basement or a way to relive daddy issues. I'm nearly 50, I've spent most of my life alone, and I've generally been happier single. If I can't find a guy who's better entertainment than Netflix, more help than ChatGPT, and at least as pleasant and interesting to talk to as my best friend, I would rather just stay single.

If I'm inclined to try for something else, I don't have to beg. I've got plenty to offer, and a guy with his head on straight will be able to see that. I'm not a saint but I'm kind and trustworthy. I'm not rich but I've got more stability than most. I'm not a supermodel but I've got a nice smile and a fit body. I wouldn't mind sharing all this with someone, but they can't be taking advantage of me or bossing me around or trying to change me. At this age I know who I am and what I value. If someone happens to be compatible, great. If not, okay, good luck to them. But I don't want anyone trying to control me.

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anonymous Relationships January 19, 2026 at 6:06 pm 2 1