Wife being irrational over my job, again

I just got into a big fight with my stupid ass wife because I left a job. She is in my face relentlessly to find work lately, after the call center I was working at stop allowing remote work and now we have to go into the building to work.

Well, I can't and won't do that. I was hired to work at home, and I won't alter that because of some retarded policy change. I quit, and have been looking for more remote work, because that is all I will do at this point. Well, I found a place that contracts with a credit union. They have remote work, and I was all read to go, went and picked up the computer, screens and headset, got all that set up, and then when I got on the training session last week, I found out that the trainer, who is a man, isn't going to be my boss. After training, my boss is a going to be a female! I was assigned to the team that she leads, without that even being ran by me first! I asked to switch, citing it was scheduling conflicts (because you can't have preference or opinion anymore because of wokeism) and was told it is "too late" to switch scheduled, and I have to be there three months before I can REQUEST a schedule change!

Well, this was last week. I decided that is NOT going to work for me. I am a traditional men (trad alpha man!) and I don't believe that men, take orders from, or are to be led by women! The Bible makes it clear that is not acceptable, and nature makes it clear that is not possible or realistic!

My wife and I argue, constantly about it and she does NOT get it, and will NOT follow me in that. So, it goes without saying that she has made our home life, marriage, family and existence, all very trying, frustrating, and tense...on a daily basis. She tells me that because I work at home, and she works outside of the home, that I need to "switch the laundry" on my break, and "try to put it away" and then thinks she is going to order me around about taking out the trash, feeding the pets, gets down my throat if I dare leave a plate or cup out when I have to make my own lunch because she will make hers to take, but leaves me nothing! Well, I quietly protest all that, and refuse. It isn't my job just because I am at home. I am still working, and she doesn't grasp that. Then, she starts on me about how she comes home from work and does all that, and then when she was working remote during the pandemic, that she did all the housework as well. plus took care of our (then) three year old! She also nags me that I need to drive our child to school, since I don't start work until 10am. Well, I refuse to do that also because that is what the bus is for! And I don't care that she comes home from work and still the stuff around the house. Lots of you gals don't like us men saying this, but it is YOUR jobs as women, wives and mothers to manage the home! None of that is a man's responsibility. My dad never did laundry. He never drove us kids. He never cooked, until it was to grill during the 4th or memorial day, or some summer get togethers.

She knows that the past few years I have educated myself, and have absorbed male excellence. I realized my value, as the man, the provider and protector of our home. And yes...I know she is working too, but it is ultimately MY responsibility in the end, and I just cannot a world where a man is doing feminine tasks. I used to, I once allowed her to be a shrew and breath down my neck, and boss me around, but I have learned from many influencers, such as Andrew Tate, to NOT take that out of my wife. She will eventually figure it out, and for now I simply refuse to take on those tasks, and leave them. Either she does them, or they don't get done and our house is a mess, the dogs and cat go unfed, our child is unbathed, we have no clean clothes, and we go hungry. I will still feed myself, even if it means eating in front of them, to prove my point. She is the one allowing our child to go filthy and hungry if she refuses to feed them, that is on HER...not me, she is the one not stepping up. That is a lesson from me, to her. So, lately, she has only done HER laundry, our daughter's, and taken care of the pets. My house has no clean dishes, they are piled up in the dishwasher, and I have had to call my Mom to take my clothes to wash and bring back, so because of my wife, there has been a burden put upon my aging mother. But, I will persist to do the right thing, as the man, head of the household, and one in charge. I will now bow and bend to a woman's orders, and I will our home fal because of HER being a know-it-all, incorrigible, loudmouthed, selfish, arrogant, SHREW. And forget intimacy....she won't even sleep in the same room hardly anymore with me.

Anyway, all that aside, as I said above....I will NOT bow to a woman, and if that means my own wife---then why would I ever allow a woman to be my supervisor????

So today, my wife asked me when I start work (I was scheduled to work Saturdays) I told her I had this entire week off for Thanksgiving (but I just haven't been working at all, because I quit) she finally figured out that was obviously not true, so I told her the reality of it. I will NOT have a female manager over me. WILL NOT.

So, all day has been argument, snide remarks, glares and dirty looks. Calling her mother and sister, and her friends to complain. Going on and on about how I haven't worked in "Sooooo long" and that she's been carrying us financially, then rub in all this stuff about how SHE is supporting our entire household, AND doing all the work around the house and she is doing this, and that, she is the one that blah blah blah, and then on about how I don't even have a "grown-up" job. Then made some snippet at me about how I am "lucky" to work in a call center because I would only be at a "gas station otherwise." I heard her in our bedroom telling her sister how I have no skills, no education and that when we married I promised all this stuff. Which I didn't "promise" anything, about finishing my degree! I said I would THINK about it, but I got burned out and just, don't feel like going back to college at 28 years old! And it is unnecessary! Look how successful Charlie Kirk was with NO college! I will be that well off someday, as soon as I find the right level of work, which I am looking! And just because she is working right now, doesn't mean she replaces ME, the man, as head of the home! And it doesn't mean she gets to control ME, or assign me chores like I am a child!

Then, she got on me about I lied to her all week that I was working, when in reality I quit last week.
Yeah, well , so??? I don't have to explain myself to her, my wife! I am a GROWN man and can make my OWN choices! I don't have to ask or have permission! And because of how she is acting today about it, is WHY I didn't tell her! I wanted to enjoy Thanksgiving in peace, which we didn't, because she REFUSED to host this year, going on about how she doesn't want a big mess and people over and blah blah blah! It is always some selfish ass bullshit with her! So, that meant I didn't get to do shit for Thanksgiving, because my family besides my mother lives out of town, and my Mom went out of town to see my family, and I didn't want to go to my wife's family! I don't like the way they act like I am not even there, and pay all the attention to our daughter, and barely even greet me when I walk in! They have always treated me badly! Well, she finally went without me, and took our daughter, and I got nothing but left at home and had to eat a fucking leftover pizza from two nights prior! That was MY Thanksgiving folks! No one did shit for me! No one ever does!

So, today, all day, my wife has been a BITCH and god awful to me. Berating me at every turn, went and got lunch for her and our daughter, didn't invite me, didn't bring me anything! She came back with Starbucks, which I told her we NEED to stop buying because I don't like what that company stands for (wokeism) but she does it anyway, and lectures me about "her money!"

I told her it is OUR money, but whatever! I guess it is only our money when I earn it! So, I took her coffee and DUMPED it out, and that started another fight. I told her that I will NOT have it in MY home, so next time, drink it before you come home. Then she threw the cup at me , and now there is coffee spattered all over and she refuses to clean it up! Something SHE caused!

The rest of the afternoon now has been her furiously emailing me links for jobs, adding "Jobs YOU can do with your limited capacity!" and "yes, you might have to actually LEAVE the house like I do!" then asking if I am going to apply, and when I refuse to answer, she just yells at me more!
She knows I refuse to apply for a job that is NOT remote, and I will not work for a woman. So, until that job comes along, NO, I will not applying to it!

Then, I told her I need gas money for Monday, because I have to return this call center's equipment, or they are charging me for the equipment and it is around $1500, and she had a fucking meltdown over that. I told her, that is fine then, I will send the bill her way, and she can pay for that since she is keeping me from taking it back!

I am one more thing she says or does to me from packing up my stuff and moving to my parent's house! My Mom has offered, in fact, practically begged me to move back home and she does NOT like my wife, never has! I told my wife this, and all she did was say, "Good, I will help you pack your shit!"

I told her that she wouldn't last ONE week without me here to keep this house running! She can barely handle her own life, and crashes out over anything, just like she is right now, yet thinks she's is capable of handling anything without me??? I am the one who brings the calm, peace, and stability this home. She is pure and total chaos! So I might just leave and let her take it all on by herself, alone, without me to carry her! She can learn what it means to be without a man, to be a single-mother for awhile, to not have a man to come home to who keeps you safe and balanced! She can learn what FEMALE LONLINESS EPIDEMIC is, and then when she's ready, she can come admit she was wrong, apologize, and then change her bullshit feminist ideas, and start following me in my mission to raise our daughter in a TRAD HOME with TRAD values, and learn to be a trad woman and treat me and respect me, her husband, as a traditional man!

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Luke the Hero Home November 30, 2025 at 3:18 pm 0 1