What you call that

So I got a friend well not one you think, you know being a gamer you don’t really know them people. Well a stream I join a lot he does too, well I don’t join that streamer as much anymore although I want to because I love her content. But when I do he always says my name so much like holy wow calm down, it makes me feel bad for the steamer and I feel like even other people are like my god. He always texts me always wanting me to join him in games and I do because i don’t want him to annoy others as it’s like he can’t shut up about me so I try and give him that attention. He’s not a bad dude he can just be so much. I’m not shaming him. Hell we both opened up to each other became good friends to game with and talk too over the phone as we game or text. I don’t know what impression I gave I try to be neutral with everyone but of course I say odd things, not flirty things I’m just a little odd will say something that will never be expected odd. Well like I was saying I’ve opened up to him told him some past. I told him how my bottom his life you know how I went to gaming as a distraction. Over time he started coming to me saying how he’s ugly, that he doesn’t deserve love. All the bad stuff you know? Then it progressed in him saying he doesn’t want to be here anymore and that things will be better without him, but all that hits too close to home, I lost my brother to that and I don’t find it fair that’s all he says to me all the time after having a good game with him he says the same thing, I’m not a therapist I don’t know what to say and then he says sorry but he shouldn’t be sorry for his feelings I do want to be there for him I don’t want to be a bitch. But I’ve said everything I can say it just doesn’t feel fair for me to be hearing all that all the time I don’t want that to feel like my responsibility. I don’t know what he wants from me or how to make him understand it makes me uncomfortable, I want to say it’s selfish but that sounds too harsh if anyone games or got anyone like this what do I say or do? Or like why can’t he grasp why that would make me uncomfortable as I literally lost my brother to it

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Girlneedsanswers Friends April 09, 2026 at 5:14 pm 0 0