I commented on your last post from the other day after you posted it.

Honestly, autistic people piss me the hell off. I think there is a world of difference between the little quirks that are actually part of the tism, and just willingly choosing to be a dumbass because people let them.

I wrote in a previous comment about how I've been around functional autistic people who were actually enjoyable to be around because they had personality and weren't coddled and set up to be a burden on everyone. Then I've been around the opposite of people who behaved horribly and acted like everyone else should just out up with them.

Autism is so misdiagnosed these days. It's become a scam for places to misdiagnose and bill for useless services that coddle and make the supposed autistic person out to be a special widdle snowflake who can do no wrong ever. Every bit of selfish, stubborn, antisocial behavior is slowly becoming part of the spectrum.

Anyway. This might sound selfish and I really don't fucking care. If I can't be honest anonymously here, then where can I be? I've taken care of kids and people pretty much my whole life. I finally got away from jobs that were my upbringing repeated. I'm sick of sacrificing myself so spoiled ass fucks can get another day. I don't blame the ex's.

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anonymous 1 day ago

I want to meet someone and be in a loving, healthy relationship with someone. The romanticized crap from movies of getting ice cream and holding hands, and little pecks on the cheek. I don't want to revolve my life around raising anyone right now. I raised so many including myself, I fucking deserve to be able to live my own life.

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anonymous 1 day ago

I'm not telling you what to do, these were just my thoughts. I hope things work out best for everyone involved.

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anonymous 1 day ago

OP Here.. He was also diagnosed with "FASD not otherwise specified" or something like that. It's essentially FASD without an official diagnosis. His mother is and was a crack whore and I believe his father knows more about it then he wants to admit.. I think he knows she drank, did drugs and whatever else while pregnant with DA. I'm just glad he is 16 and will hopefully be out my at least 25..
My only other worry is if I want to have children one day, that my husband might give me a screwed up kid to.. So I'd rather not take that risk. I know that sounds bad or whatever. There are women who abort their babies when they learn they are messed up, I'd just rather not get pregnant to begin with if there is known risk. Autism is passed from the father usually,

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anonymous 1 day ago

OP again.. also, you 110% can and should and deserve to be honest here no matter what you think or feel... Isn't that why we are all here? I used to be on Reddit but a post like this would have been banned for "not being nice" fuck Reddit. This site is way better, very therapeutic lol

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anonymous 1 day ago

^ Agreed. Reddit sucks ass, and the majority of people there have no understanding of life, beyond what they have seen on TV/internet.

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anonymous 1 day ago

So why did you choose to even start a relationship with the dad? You sound like an entitled, ableist bitch, sorry. I understand the part about feeling like the kid is a burden, especially as someone who never wanted any either. Being neurodivergent myself, I have a hard time tolerating kids, so I never would have dated a dad, problem solved (more like prevented)!

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anonymous 1 day ago

OP: I am 100% a bitch haha entitled? no actually. Him and I were friends for a long time before officially dating. We dated for another several years before actually moving in together. We know each other well and have an amazing healthy and structured relationship. He is my best friend FIRST before anything else. This is why I stay. A relationship of this level is extremely hard to find. Most people never find it. So if I have to deal with his kid for a few more years then so be it. If his kid was only 10 years old or whatever I would seriously reconsider the relationship. I treat the kid with the utmost respect and love, so I am allowed to vent about it if need be.

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anonymous 1 day ago

Fuck the "ableist" comment. I am so sick of how people aren't allowed to speak honestly about things. We're all fucked up in some way or another. Most don't use it as some sort of justification to play PC Police on what others can and cannot say.

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anonymous 1 day ago

Hopefully dumbass can move and be a dumbass or burden on someone else and you can have a good relationship with this person.

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anonymous 1 day ago

have a yard sale....

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anonymous 1 day ago

Thanks.. if this makes me "ableist" then so be it.. and the yard sale comment made me laugh!

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anonymous 1 day ago

My honest opinion: I wouldn't be able to tolerate "DA" and either he goes, or I go.

And if anyone has a problem with what I said, then go fuck yourself. Better yet, take "DA" into your home.

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anonymous 1 day ago

"I used to be on Reddit but a post like this would have been banned for "not being nice" fuck Reddit"

Sissies who think that silencing the 'bad speak' somehow makes the the thinking go away. If anything, it closes a pressure relief valve and that person might end up taking out his anger, physically, having not be able to vent it online.

I know Reddit's been more cautious because of Luigi and his alleged ties to what was being posted theee, but trying to ban me on the grounds of being "not nice" makes me want to put my boot up these sissies' asses.

I am 48 years old. I don't need a hall monitor to deal with.

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anonymous 1 day ago

All of you autism haters shut the hell up about autistic people! I'm fuckin' of you damn neurotypicals shittin' on ND folks! You've been doin' that crap for too long! Put yourselves in their shoes! How the fuck would you feel if receive that ableist bullshit all the time?!

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anti-neurotypical 20 hours ago

Im proud to be normal. Im happy I was born and turned out "neuro-typical" wouldnt change it for the world. The fact is, "neuro-divergent" people can sometimes annoy us. Sorry that hurts your delicate feelings.

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anonymous 14 hours ago