My grandparents

To anyone whose going to project and say shit of "ohhhh you'll miss them when they're gone .....I miss mine ....." Well good for you, but a lot of people have shit grandparents who people never grieve because there was no loss.

The grandparents on my mother's side always treated me like this weird anti social little weirdo when I was 100000X better behaved than the spoiled brat golden child grandkids. They never had a relationship with me. The don't know where I live. What I do. Or even have my phone number. When they eventually die and go to hell I won't care. I've had deeper relationships with teachers and coworkers than I ever did them. Doesn't matter if I got a bullshit birthday card in my younger years or not. It means nothing.

I also had a grandpa who kind of acted the part. He wasn't bad to me. He was never in good health by the point I came around. I have learned in the decades since his death that he was kind of apathetic towards everything. He probably didn't like me, but at least didn't treat me like shit like the others did.

His wife grew to resent the hell out of me towards the end of her life. Always treated me different. Knew she couldn't manipulate me like the other grandkids. Kind of couldn't stand that I forged my own path in life and didn't want to become white trash too. Her treatment in the last decade or so of her life was inexcusable. No excuse for going out of her way out last conversation to tell everyone but me how she loved them. She died, I felt nothing. Happened four years ago, so j don't think anything is going to come of it.

My other grandmother. The best example I can think of was when I was about six. My cousins, the golden children were at her house. I was there too. She was talking to them like kids, letting them pick out Kool Aid packets to make. Didn't offer me a choice or even acknowledge that I was right fucking there. She always favored them to no end and ignored me. Before any apologists come on. Those cousins had shit parents, mine were worse. I was written off as a lost cause, the most likely to end up in a gutter, and now I've done more than any of them ever will because the rest choose to do nothing.

So, fuck my grandparents. Don't miss them.

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anonymous Relationships June 22, 2025 at 5:00 pm 0 0