MY FRIEND MADE ME UNCOMFORTABLE.

So today after school me and some of my friends hung out, and there's this ONE girl who was being overly touchy and weird to me. Like, the entire time (like 5-ish hours) she was grabbing onto my thigh, and (for lack of a better word) weirdly grabbing onto my shoulders, she pinned me to the walls multiple times, trying to grab at my ankles/socks, making weird sexual jokes, and was just constantly getting too close to me. Ik this sounds pretty bad, but idk if it really is like, actual assault, ykwim? because we're friends, and our friend group, more specifically me and her have an ongoing joke that we're married, and the usual stupid freaky make-out jokes that we do both make to each other often. So I'm sure she was just doing this, and meant it as a simple joke --nothing different from what we usually do-- but the way that she constantly corned me into walls, make comments, and was just generally getting too close to me even when I backed away from her. But I'm not sure if this is actually all that serious, considering what I previously mentioned, and (technically speaking), I never, *verbally*, said word for word "stop". ..yet at the same time, I did (somewhat) jokingly said I was going to punch her if she kept on touching me, and she didn't stop. She does that a lot (and tbf a lotta ppl do lol) where i'll tell them not to touch me/jokingly 'threaten' to punch them or bite them or smth if they do, and then they'll give me like a light poke/touch. Plus, I'm not sure if I made it was clear that she was making me uncomfortable with my body language specifically, because when I'm nervous or uncomfortable I tend to nervously smile, and the entire time I could tell she wasn't being serious... but it still felt wrong. Like, I felt quite uncomfortable about how she just kept on getting closer to me-- and it got to a point where (disguised as just a silly joke/bit to my other friends that were there) me n my other friend literally restrained her and quite literally tied her up in rope... not like it did anything, though, she just ended up crawling to me again. then as a joke again, i was then the one whos hands and legs were tied with the rope, and during it she was saying "youre such an obedient omega" and yeah, thats obviously literally JUST a joke, but it was kinda weird still? like, i dunno, it felt weird with her calling me obedient. So... yeah... it was still really uncomfortable for me and i don't know how I should feel about this.

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liz Friends September 17, 2025 at 12:11 am 0 0