My dad

I love my dad to bits. I am close to my dad. One of the reasons I never had a boyfriend is because my dad is very disapproving of any guy I pick that is not his pick for me. He likes the arranged marriage route. He is very old fashioned. Sometimes when the guys that my father selects are bad to me, my father does not believe me. It takes years and my mom's help to convince my dad of my observations. My mom is more liberal. She is okay with me marrying outside my community. When I dated a white guy, my dad and my brother were mad even though I kept them informed and up to date. I was transparent and honest with them. My mom told me to pursue it to see if the guy was good at heart. Currently, there is a single East Asian guy and single Black guy who like me. But I run away from them because I do not want any more drama at home with dad.
As long as my dad is alive, I will remain single. That is the price I pay for being his daughter.

My relatives also put me down in a bad way. If I reject an Indian guy, they make bad jokes that I am looking for a white guy. My relatives put pressure on my dad.

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anonymous Dating May 21, 2025 at 7:13 pm 0 0