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Women often say things like if he doesnt match my energy i wont bother.... as a man ill just address that. Why are men not matching energy ?Well multiple possible reasons. Often women assume its because he isnt into me... not true probably but ill get to that. The reason men will as a default not match energy is they feel unsure at first guarded because they have had women make fun of them especially at work because are worried about being targeted by coworkers.
Next possibility he doesmt like you... well only way to find out get to know him show he likes you does he try to keep it open? Does he outright reject you? Honestly if hes quiet he might be open to it but he might be just sizing you up... however, if you are fucking him for 8 months and he still gives you nothing he won't ever... even a month frankly... like i think first month rule decides if he likes you
anonymous Relationships September 16, 2025 at 1:30 am 1 0
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Far as work goes, definitely not necessarily matching her energy even if I am into her. Right now I've got a 40 minute commute. If she's got kids or family nearby and lives nearby then dating is basically not gonna happen. Why bother at that point? I'm not gonna be your friend for like 8 months before we finally start dating. Especially at a workplace where people talk.
Then you also have what you touched upon, men being shamed on social media. We're literally told to leave women alone at work, at the gym, at the bar, at the concert, literally everywhere. Like, you can't have it both ways. Accountability is a full circle, 360 degrees. You can't shame men you're not into or mess with men you don't really like, give off those vibes aside from being decently polite, and then tear them down. We all end up seeing it, and it's not funny.
And too many of those women don't have enough to offer aside from looks anyway. I'm going to grad school and women at work who are into me are often in far worse shape than me AND barely got through high school. GPAs don't mean shit in the real world, but neither do all those patches on your arm for the meaningless groups you're in. No one is gonna care when you get laid off or leave the job you were given due to family connections. Degrees are a universal credential. Gotta have that growth mindset yourself if you wanna fuck men who've got one. Also gotta realize they're not all gonna have six figure salaries like they expect depending on the stage of life they're in, and it's not about having a life plan. Not everyone is lucky like Emma Watson and gets "discovered" in elementary school. It's not grinding if you're starting at the top of the mountain.
anonymous 1 year ago
Like as far as I'm concerned I've got nothing to lose. That's why I'm about to talk about a sales job that pays the most I've ever made in a year before commission. It'd be the same reason why I'd talk to someone way out of my league or any woman I find interesting at all. It'd be proving a point to myself and because if they made fun of me for it I already expected that shit anyway. That's how PTSD works. Like all their homophobia cause I'm sick of their shit.
anonymous 1 year ago