I feel like I can’t really explain this to anyone IRL without it being awkward af. But like, I’m a dude, I’m in my early 20s. I’ve just been noting this a lot in college. Other guys really want to get laid basically. Like I’ve seen guys try to hang out with girls or be nice to them or talk to them and stuff. I have no idea why, I just don’t feel that way about women in general. I’m attracted to women, I just don’t like most women, and I just don’t feel interested in like most of them. I literally have no desire to talk to most people.
anonymousOther September 05, 2025 at 4:52 pm00
Maybe this is messed up, but whenever I see guys that really go after women a lot and feel validated by that, whenever I see them with a girl, I kinda think to myself, "Have you really looked at her face and really thought about that?" Maybe my problem is I think too much. anonymous 3 hours ago
Just in terms of cost / benefit analysis, unless she’s really rich and really really really stupid enough she gives me her money or something idiotic, I don’t see the point in risking getting somebody pregnant while I’m still in college. Especially since I’m a man so biologically I can do that when I’m 60. anonymous 3 hours ago
I also feel like genetics kinda matter. Like she’s pretty, okay, fine, I’d rather have kids that aren’t ugly. But is she smart? Does she have a family history of disease? You know what would be messed up? Getting a girl pregnant in college by accident and you have a kid who develops cancer. Like how can I have sex with a woman if I don’t know her whole family background if we might accidentally bring life into this world and I legally can’t do anything about that decision, and I have to pay for it. anonymous 3 hours ago
Or like what if she has a different religion or political ideology? anonymous 3 hours ago
Tbh even if you’re a woman, it’s expensive, but technically you can freeze your eggs. You don’t have to have kids when you’re young either way. It’s just if you’re a man you don’t have to spend $30,000 on it. anonymous 2 hours ago
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