It's not you. It's them.

If you're on a dating app and are a good person. You aren't abusive trash. You aren't lying about drug use, employment status, or having kids. And you're actually there because you want to meet someone and you're trying with messages and likes but aren't getting very far. It's not you. It really is the other person.

Want proof? Think about all of the times you've reinstalled the app and see the same fucking people still on there. Still with recent active status, years after your failed conversation or being ghosted after the first date. It's not you, it's them. If they were so good or good at all they'd have found someone and wouldn't still be on there after YEARS of living on it and their shit communication skills. They are the reason it has gone nowhere for them.

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anonymous Relationships October 20, 2026 at 1:50 pm 0 0