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I hate my mother

I hate my mother

I really hate my mother for a couple of reasons.
Number 1, she scolds people too much, even when she is in the wrong. She believes that everything she does is right and does not listen to others. And when something goes wrong because of her, she does not admit her mistake and instead blames others.
Number 2, I really strongly despise all that she believes in. She thinks that no one can be friends without taking advantage of one another in some way or another. Even though I kind of agree to a small extent, the way she says it is like no 2 people can be friends if they truly want to be friends and get to know each other. She does not believe in true love too btw for this same reason. If that is the case, then why do couples even get together, get married and never divorce? It is because both of them make each other happy and have no intention of stealing from one another or benefitting from one’s success. It is through sticking with each other through thick and thin can the relationship be a healthy and prosperous one. But well she doesn’t agree and no one can change her mind.
Number 3, this is the biggest reason. She is a liar and cheater (and surprise surprise, she doesn’t think she’s wrong). So context, my parents don’t really have a good relationship with each other and ever since my brother and I were young, they always wanted to have a divorce, but eventually always decided to stay together for the sake of me and my brother. But the irony is, it really affects me quite a lot, I have become mildly depressed at times and very anxious whenever they fight. It has really taken a toll on my mental health, to the point where ever since last year, I have been researching on how to leave this house, lead my own life and never come back ever again. But as now I’m still studying, I can only hope for my desired future. So 2 years ago, when we were in a holiday in Thailand, my brother and I found out that my mother had cheated, and was cheating on my father. Well obviously we were in a state of shock and I hurriedly recorded a video of all the text messages my mother and her disgusting lover sent to each other. I was thinking about this the whole trip and on the last day of the trip, I could not take it anymore and told my father about it. I showed him the evidence but he didn’t really seem that shocked, as he said he had expected it already. He confronted my mother and instead of being remorseful, she started shouting and defending herself, saying that the marriage was already over and there was no more love between my father and her, and demanded to know why my father was restricting her life choices. She then accused me of destroying the family by telling my father about this. As you can guess, I was dumbfounded. Literally. Stood there mouth hanging open replaying what I just heard once more in my head. Wow. It was my fault. I really couldn’t believe that she blamed me for this when she was the one who cheated. For the next few months, I lived with that nightmare and she still kept blaming me for this. There was a time I actually started believing that it was my fault, and if I had stayed silent nothing would have happened. It took a long time for me to actually believe that I was in no wrong and it wasn’t my fault for her cheating. Long story short, my mother is a liar and a fraud. A cheater. Someone I will always see as a heartless monster. Selfish. Arrogant. Not a mother. But just a person who gave birth to me. That is all.

There are so many more reasons why I hate her that I could write a book about it, but it would be much too long. I sincerely hope no one has such a mother like mine.
Kelly Home June 22, 2025 at 10:32 am 0
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Your mother is neither right nor wrong and that is the crux of your problem with her..get her to use psychedelics and nude neighborhood prowling with howling and see where that goes. How long have you always never felt that way?
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