How did it go wrong?

We recently started dating, holding hands and hugging in public and all that. We had intimated moments in bed, too. He never has asked me out with flowers or anything, we just knew and met up quite often. I think I had more expectations of him, of a classic, provider man type of person-- the one who is more mature, patient, and understanding. Sometimes he acts like so but sometimes he is just a boy. I know I am not supposed to cry over people not acting accordingly to my expectations, but what should I do? Do I just move on? We trauma bonded and there were good times. It has just started and whenever there is something we disagree upon, it is not easy to talk about it. He avoids talking about difficult stuff with a tone of voice, while I get more worried that things would go south. I am afraid that he does not love me anymore, or not as much as I thought. How can we navigate through hard times and would this be able to go anywhere?

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anonymous Dating October 15, 2025 at 5:26 am 0 0