finally distancing myself from these kinds of ppl

I fucking can't with people who are anxious attachments. I never want them to be dependent on me but whoop I got clung on by one, when I take time off for myself, be with other friends I also hang out with, suddenly I am abandoning them because as they say it- I should prioritize them over the other??? even close friends i've had for 10 years??? I HAVE OTHER FRIENDS TOO BRUHHH. I shouldn't keep stories from them?? okay, I told, then reaction was "oh, whatevs, u do u ig", thanks, that soo encouraged me to tell more and didn't make me feel awful internally. When I make my own space then they went ahead stalked that account (I never told about and they found by themselves) the proceed to get mad that they're not in there, when I ask why are they trying to pry so much, suddenly I'M defensive for not telling them while they proceed to tell my other friend that I'm also ditching them when they pulled out their own conclusion. They're hating on everyone who shares the same favorite character therefore I should NEVER befriend anyone who shares the same favorite character as the one they like because they can be the only one if I can't respect that then what's going to become of me for more serious things? (their words), Proceed to crashout and be the 'wisest' in my DMs when I try to understand their perspective and explain mine to find a middle ground but NOOOOO it's either; I ditch everyone to prioritize them or I'm a bitch.
They aren't willing to trust anyone first so they told me I should prove myself to them enough to be worthy of earning their trust, then says it's not because of their past trauma they are asking for these and put all the blame onto me.

if it's clear there is no mutual respect, I am not putting myself put through the troubles, the hell?

all these and the trigger was literally because I have other friends and they don't think I prioritize them enough even when we do vcs most nights + frequent interactions exclusive gcs, apparently I didn't sound so enthusiastic to them therefore I must have ran out of euphoric feelings towards them and ditch them behind their back.

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anonymous Friends December 23, 2025 at 9:08 am 0 0