Fake Friend

So I am unsure if this girl is really my friend or not. I rekindled a relationship with her, back in highschool we were “secret friends” because we had different cliques but now that we are in college and that stuff doesn’t exist anymore, we now hangout. She overly talks about herself and her problems without letting me getting a word in and never seems happy with any of her choices or options in life. Whether she wants to take a day off or get more hours she’s upset or how her unreasonably low rent should be even lower, or how she talks trash about her sisters (who she is very much going to end up like. Also if you talk trash about your family youre definitely going to talk trash about me) she CONSTANTLY needs my attention and texts me complaining or wanting to hangout literally every single day even though I have already told her I need my alone time. She wants to buy the same perfume that I wear and I’m LIVID about that. She will critique how I workout even tho she has gained weight since highschool and I lost it. She also talks badly about her bf and I swear she thinks I’m doing something with him even tho I am not even remotely interested in that sort of drama. She will make jokes about lesbians multiple times almost insinuating that I was one because I had short hair in highschool, even though I’ve had long term relationships with men my entire life? She will make other jokes saying that people who make kids their personality are boring even tho all she does is drink every single night and complain and says she doesn’t want kids over and over again and how it’s selfish that I basically do. She also tries to tell me that going to college is really really easy (even tho she doesn’t go to school). I just feel like she is constantly needing my attention, energy and poking fun or dismissing me. I’ve never had a sister so I don’t understand how it’s like but I really don’t understand how she can’t be alone literally at all, when it’s all I want. I always watch my mouth and try to support her but please let me know what you guys think and please help me suggest how I can get her to back off.

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Tired friend Friends April 24, 2024 at 9:47 am 0 0