oh lord, if being married is the end goal you would be
lets get serious about this shit, you don't actually need to be married, you just want to get it on without the guilt society has placed upon you
go have you sex as much as you want, don't listen to the old people
if you were a guy none of this convo would even be happening
go live, be happy, do what feels good
the world relies on your happiness

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anonymous 3 days ago

You should go on dating sites but ypu shouldn't have started at 40 you should have started looking at 18. I'm 35 I would have loved to find a girl but they are very inaccessible I find. They also tend to say oh hes not in the job I expect and so on. Well you can say that but how did it end for you? I wish I had the right job I have 2 jobs now but been rejected for lots of jobs. Has been hard. I think ivf may help you still have kids its not a good idea to rely on but in your situation worth a try but its not a good plan ideally. I think go in online sites try to get free sites to make it easier email type sites where you can directly be messaged on Facebook too. And do a post or something so you are seen. Honestly its about makimg yourselves accessible and if you are keeping relatovely fit especially you will get attention. It always helps though to stay a nice figure not too fat. If you are a good size men will come

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anonymous 3 days ago