Before you go dropping me

Before you go dropping me like an ebola-dipped turd in favor of some jerk you used to fuck, consider the fact that the one you're having such a hard time getting over did exactly that to you, after you ruined your life chasing after him. How much money did you throw at him? Your life's savings? What else happened? Your mom and dad and half your friends disowned you over the situation? You lost your job because you showed up late one time too many trying to impress him at all hours of the day and night? Why is that worth pursuing one more time? I believe he's got some kind of good points that attracted you, sure, but I don't know what they are.

Come to think of it that's a lie - I don't believe he's a good person. All I know is that he took you for everything you had, ruined your life, walked off, and acts like you don’t exist now. He still spends half his life drunk and stoned, or at least that is the rumor in town. So what the fuck is the draw? You've got a guy who actually cares now and stays sober like you do. You don't get a 15 year chip for being a (recent) screwup.

Anyway I love you but I'm out of patience and you need to make a decision. I know you're having problems - go talk to a doctor or a priest or something. Isn't there 12 step for people with relationship problems now? Go to that, I don't care, just do something other than making me wonder if there is a future here.

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anonymous Relationships August 01, 2025 at 6:40 pm 0 0