are all brothers so spoiled?

i want to preface by saying that this obv isn't my fight, he's not my little brother but i'm damn near glad i don't have a little brother if it means they're spoiled and entitled as shit
my gf and i talk a lot, and naturally, things that happen around our houses are always talked about. but there's one glaring thing that just irks the hell out of me: her little brother
not my house, people get raised differently, i understand that, but every time i hear some bullshit about this guy, i hate him more and more.
it's not even like he's done anything to me, because i'm the kind of person to bite my tongue when things happen to me. sure, he gets my keyboard and controllers greasy sometimes, he once uninstalled something without asking... those are annoying, but they're things that i'm willing to shut up about. but when it comes to my girlfriend? i haven't actually done or said anything, but every time i hear his name i just fucking seethe.
but of course, it's not my fight, let's talk about what happens to the person he lives with.
ignoring some ad hominem arguments (which there are quite a lot of) he's just a little prick for no reason.
my gf and (dick) share a bathroom, and as she was getting ready to do something, he notices that she put cups on his side of the counter. so what does he do? just move the cups over like a regular person? tell my gf to move them after she's done? that would be too simple for his prepubescent, idiotic, illogical brain, instead, he knocks EVERYTHING on her side on the ground, breaking a 30 dollar hair thing (i don't remember what it was) that she had to throw away. crazy, right?
keep in mind that i mention he's spoiled and entitled. he barely apologized for that! he didn't even get into any trouble for it! which is CRAZY!
the other day, he mentioned to her that he washes his hair everyday, and she offers some words, saying that it isn't healthy. instead of being a normal person and being like: "oh, it isn't?" or "oh, idk" he just says "shut the fuck up, i'll do what i want." and they get into a little yelling thing. guess who gets called out about it? NOT DICKFACE!
i know people live differently, and every household is different... but he also deadass doesn't do shit around their house. he takes out all of the trash, which isn't easy, tbf, but that's something that usually happens like... every week or two. he doesn't clean his room so that shit looks dingy as hell, and he doesn't do his own laundry.
he's such a little bitch boy, i know i was trying to avoid attacks on him but ever since i learned what an entitled brat he is, i've started to hate on everything he does. which is honestly new for me; i don't like disliking anybody, but if there was one person who's downfall i am PRAYING on, it's his. the way he talks is pretty awkward, which isn't inherently annoying, but being all soft spoken when you speak to your older sister who's already gone through so much like she's your personal servant and personal charging cable is actually so goddamn annoying. i hate the way he dresses, i hate the way he talks, it's painful being around him.
i don't understand how i can be so angry with someone who hasn't done shit to me but there's so much more i could say. this is me holding back on how i feel about him. he got me to seethe so hard, i looked up a site to anonymously rant about how much i hate this mf.
sure, he's still young, like 3 years younger, so he's got time to grow and learn that his behavior will not be accepted when he's older. regardless of whether he's going into the workforce or college, he's going to have to change. i love my gf, and i tolerate the household she lives in, but for the sake of her, i BEG and PRAY that they change for the better. that's right, it's not just him that pisses me off, it's the rest of the people she lives with. i doubt that anyone will ever see this, but i hope that if that household sees this post specifically, i hope you understand that you need to change. and your behavior is not cute. you have failed to parent, and you need to grow up. especially you, H.

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anonymous Relationships July 27, 2025 at 10:03 pm 1 0