Am I in the wrong?

My husband and I have been together 11 years married for 8 of it. We have two children. I have a disability but can still work. It only prevents my ability to get places. He is the only one that can drive. We both work from home. Between our jobs and the kids schedules/activities, we don’t have time for ourselves or each other. It is winter break for the kids. One is old enough to stay home without constant supervision and the other one is spending time at grandparents while we work. I work 3 out of 4 Saturdays. Today he wants to just relax and play games because life is insane and he deserves a break and time to himself. I ask (not demand) if during my lunch break (which would be HOURS from when I am asking) if we could spend time together and/or play a video game together. He blows up at me saying that I’m pressuring him, making him feeling like he only gets a certain amount of time to play his games, that I’m crossing a boundary for cutting into his time, and that how dare I backtrack telling him to spend the day for himself but then the next sentence ask to play together. Am I in the wrong here?

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Samantha Dating December 28, 2024 at 10:41 am 0 0