Wow can’t believe there’s individuals or groups out there that would do something like this to begin with. I stopped raving years ago , once social media took a spike. Had a gut feeling there’s people that would use social media to their advantage , create false narratives and see how people react and defend these so called “victims” which they claim to be on twitter. Deeply sorry to hear you went through that experience, I hope your mental health is at its strongest. Trust me karma will catch up to them when they least expect it, in some sort of fashion.

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Bryan 1 year ago

Omg!! I can’t believe there’s sick people out there , not only think of the stress or anxiety this would do to one person. I’m so glad I took a break from raving , my bff guy friend mentioned to me , that raving isn’t the same anymore. People are “outting” others for a situation that was made up with little to none evidence, that can back up their claims. A text isn’t a valid reason to call someone out.

Truly I’m so sorry you’ve went through this situation, I can only imagine how you deal with it daily as it sounds like trauma you can’t get out of your head. I pray and hope you have a great mental healthy recovery.

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Genesis 1 year ago

This is why people get wayyyy to comfortable with social media and think they’re untouchable or nothing will happen to them. I had a buddy of mine who was in a similar situation as you were . It caused so much stress and anxiety that he couldn’t leave his because a woman made false allegations about him , that he “sexually abused” her.

Long story short, his lawyer did some digging and research, he had found out she had no legitimate legal evidence or proof he did allegedly abused her, when in fact it was a false claim.

He was good at heart, when asked about pressing charges against her, he said to the court , to serve her community service. The look in the court room from her “supporters” they were really disappointed because they thought she was going to win the case but in fact didn’t.

Sorry for this to happen to you , I hope those you which called out . Due in fact get what they deserve and charges will be put up against them.

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Jeremiah 1 year ago

As a former raver attendee , seeing how the rave scene is growing and what type of crowd it brings. THIS is my number one reason why I don’t use social media nor affiliate with these potential “influencers” or those who claim they aren’t, but deeply they are lol.

So many new rave babies would love to experience their first rave festival, without being judge , criticized or shaming, from other rave go-oers. This whole “you need to wear this to fit in” or “why do you copy so & so” like people please . This is a safe place to express what makes you , you , and how you want to enjoy it. The second social media was involved, it got people way to comfortable to judge others and shame them on their twitter page and act like they didn’t say that when confronted. Who cares if they like a “fit” they saw from another raver, if they want to dress that way , let them.

Whoever you are, I’m sure you were that friend who didn’t care what others think about you or how you would dance. I can tell you’re a well hearted person, who’s loving and caring to others. I’m more than certain they lost a true friend at heart and they do deeply regret it. My apologies to you on the impact they have made on you. Things will work out and the worst is coming to those that did that you.

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Alexandria 1 year ago

You’ve got to be kidding me!! Why are people born like this. No matter how much of a true friend you are to them , they go do something like this and back stab you in a way , you can’t even begin to deal with.

It must of been hard for you, to get through that difficult time and deal with the pain on what they made.

If I could define haters , they fit the category. It seemed like you had a lot going for you , they didn’t like that and they did what they did , so your close friends and families see you differently. Only guliable people would believe a situation like this, especially when it comes to social media.

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Trevor 1 year ago

Reasons why social media can be draining and individuals think highly of themselves. They act as if they’re not the ones , to be put in jail , when they should be. Sounds like if you don’t agree or side with them , they will do by all means use “cancel culture” as their “power move”. Stupid how any festival you attend , you got to worry about running into these types of people

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Christian 1 year ago

Rave festivals were all about enjoying the music, living in the moment with your friends/significant other & not being on your phone or turning it off. Nowadays with the use of Instagram and Twitter it’s got to a point where , if you don’t fit in or you don’t belong there , people will use their platform to “get rid of you” simply because you’re being yourself and not riding the “fit train” just to fit in with others.

Whoever those individuals you mentioned, I hope in fact they come across this and realize they got nothing on you. By the way it sounds , they only got text messages , who knows it was probably cropped and edited to seem like you said certain things but not actually liable evidence. Seems like jealousy took over their ego and fought back with their “edm twitter army” lol I enjoy laughing at them in person and calling them out in public at the festival

Hope all is well and like they say karma will find its way back to them . They’re not invincible nor untouchable as they think they are

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Francisco 1 year ago

You see woman can be sooo manipulative , harass and abuse men as well , not just men alone. Tired of these entitled women thinking they get a pass , use the “I’m too pretty to be judged and I’m a victim listen to me”. Honey quit lying to yourself and on twitter knowing you’re scared to face the consequences in person or when talking face to face about the situation. Stuck up people are really full of themselves and they tend to ignore what’s wrong with them.

Those are ravers love , those are heartless people who thrive on others and pray on their down fall or cause the down fall on those who do better than them! Haters will hate and continue to talk about themselves on twitter because they got nothing better to do , other than “look at me it’s all about me”

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Claudia 1 year ago

Good for you making the healthy decision on speaking out! I’m sure justice will work in mysterious ways and they’ll see they messed up on making those false accusations and attempting to black mail you !!

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Robert A. 1 year ago

Some people need to learn that the shit you say online , you better stick to your word in person and own up to what you say. People bitch out , hide or deny what they said either on twitter or instagram.

They should be held accountable for their actions and threats they have made to you. That’s not right on so many levels, even on illegal acts, how can anyone believe to side with them and knowing they can face multiple charges. Not only for blackmailing , also for cyber bullying and harassment.
You got my support if they ever try to stalk or “shut you up” from the truth getting out , because they’re scared to do time in jail. I really hope someone that defends you from this rave scene , speaks out and aren’t afraid of their threats they’ve had possibly made to those that do defend your name.

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Martin H. 1 year ago

Who do these people think they are , thinking “oh let me make up a lie and let me form a group so it sounds more believable”. To even comprehend and understand what’s going through their heads , unbelievably sickening and ignorant people that got nothing better to do. Other than metaphorically speaking “dig a grave” with such harsh words that no one respects the title/subject that is being described about you.

I can sure bet my life savings that once they said what they said , they were all happy, supposedly their “lives were ruined by you” but they still continue to attend these festivals and go about their day when in fact you didn’t ruin lives to begin with.

They can keep going private and denying the accusations all they want . Karma will catch up to them

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Raymond L. 1 year ago

Not going to say who I am but I know this group personally and was in a group chat with them through text , twitter and instagram. They did in fact plan this out very carefully. I know who posted this but I respect you as you respect me, your name won’t be disclosed.

It was dreadful to see what “fire” they had caused when first setting the tone. I told them from the gecko it was a bad idea and we all can face legal charges even jail time. I won’t mention his name but you did say it, he’s the main one behind all of this issue and situation. He did tell everyone that if he gets caught will go down with him. Also keep in mind the girl you mentioned as well said something similar to us . Almost like they knew about blackmailing and framing you for an accusation with no legitimate evidence.

I’m honestly disappointed they took it so far and so long. He even said you were at apocalypse zombie land with no proof of picture/video, after finding out myself, you sold your ticket to your friend and knew he was spitting out another lie on twitter.

I’m doing my part as a genuine human being because they think they’ll be able to get away with this and act like they didn’t cause the trauma that was put on you. I hope you’re doing so much better and living your life now how you always wanted , at peace and stress free. I got your back always.

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anonymous 1 year ago

It’s about time this subject gets spoken about. I’m sure it was hard to find the time to get it out there and shed some light on these individuals. They have no idea what’s about to happen to them if they don’t come clean and tell the truth.

I knew from the start it was a lie to begin and end with. It not only pisses me off but others as well, we collectively came to the conclusion and putting the pieces together, all of it doesn’t add up to the slightest.

Some artists were close in contact with , can agree as well , I know this has been said a few times, but there’s no legitimate and valid evidence they don’t got anything on you. Stay strong and don’t worry you’re not forgotten or ignored . There’s many of us that do care about you and how it’ll change your life drastically once they’re all put away behind bars.

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Edgar S. 1 year ago

Crazy because this guy you mentioned, I sent a message to him through one of those ask me things or whatever. I called him out on his bluff and he pretends to be sober or living that sober life, dude is lying to everyone and himself. I know his totem pole is the doodlebob.

Dude wasn’t even at his totem like he said he was and his group told me “he’ll be back you can wait for him but we’re heading to another stage” lol cant call him a man because he’s scared of the outcome he caused. He’s really pathetic no wonder he didn’t tell you face to face , foo is too scared to tell you in person. Especially that threat he said “when I catch you at an event , it’s on sight with the homies” lol foo cant even man up and face his made up beef/accusations he has with you.

Your privacy is safe me , I got mad respect for you as you did for me. Never trusted him when you first introduced me to him. He’s a fake , you’re a real one . That’s all that needs to be said. He’s gonna learn soon not make threats like this , especially if it messes with your life.

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anonymous 1 year ago

This needs more spotlight and attention to show the edm scene or “edm twitter” per-se , to have everyone aware of this situation. I remember the day this was talked about , immediately everyone who supported this fake ass group, defended them without digging the truth out of them. They didn’t ask nor question what was going on, because people on twitter or instagram are so quick to assume and judge someone with little to none knowledge about what was said about you nor the actual truth, just lie were spewing out.

I was so shocked when it happened, thought to myself “this person isn’t like that” I’ve met you a couple times to see you’re true to your word and stick by what you say. I even got the chance to know you on a much more personal level , than they have never to begin with. It did hurt me because you were that person they can rely on and for them to make those false accusations about you, really shows how shitty they are.

Even after the issue was talked bout , till this day they keep saying it like if they accomplished or achieved something (that wasn’t true to start with) to the rave community and brag about it. Almost like they want to go to jail for continuing spitting out false accusations and claims, if they keep it up.

Keep being the real down to earth person you are , you know what facts are true and which ones are complete lies they talk about you. They’re going to stay quiet once people realize what they’ve done.

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anonymous 1 year ago

Dude, Finally it’s been said!! I know who this is. By the way I completely agree with you , I had to play along with their “plan” to get rid of you from the rave scene because, ketchup_jr was one jealous man( I wouldn’t label him as a man tho) more like f boy. He throws his own self insecurities/problems onto someone else, claiming “you’re the reason” why his life isn’t going as he thought it was.

As for thelov3ofurlife, you know I never liked her from the start , also her instagram was ambbvs, but knowing her she’s stay private on all accounts because she’s scared of the outcome on the false accusations she made against you. The fact that twitter feed she posted , everyone just immediately thought you did something but she clearly has no form of legal evidence. Both of them continue to talk out their ends and yet , no action was ever done, because it was a lie when it happened. I have more than enough proof of the group chat I was in , with them planning this out while you were at lost lands still. It was almost like they patiently waited for you to get back and then boom that’s when they said it all at the same time , which was sketchy and odd.

They both keep rambling on at every event they go to , so they have you on “check” in case you do show up but you’re better than that and let’s face it , they aren’t ready for jail. On top of the false accusations and basically blackmailing you, they know they’ll be put away for a long time and of course play the “I was a victim” card to those that ask about the situation.

I hope you’re doing better, working on yourself, improving each day and you made that call for yourself to not attend anymore because you got priorities straight unlike them. They can’t hide what they said, but will avoid the topic in an instant.

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anonymous 1 year ago

With the divine "T" tatoo'd on your forehead you can pass diseased orders and demand gifts, yes?

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anonymous 1 year ago

I can relate to this post as well. Firstly I’ll start off by saying I’m keeping my name anonymous due to Ketchup_jr trying to find out what was said about him.

One night my girlfriends and myself went to a club to see an artist we’ve been trying to see (also were ravers but do it as a hobby) so as we got there, during the time , we were having fun , dancing , drinking and having a good time. We met Ketchup_jr at the bar and he saw we had Kandi (custom made bracelets to trade) so we traded , we all talked to him , he seeemd nice and trustworthy so we left it at that.

As the event ends , all my homegirls were drunk and myself included, we were walking out and we saw ketchup_jr. He saw me stumble a bit and offered to help me to my car . I know I shouldn’t have drank I take full accountability but you know it happens. My homegirls got a ride home and asked if I wanted to go, ketchup_jr offered to take care of me until I’m sobered up. So he did and we went to his car.

This is where it gets odd and weird. Bear with me , as we walked to his car , we went in his car and we talked and chilled. I blacked and passed out. Moments later I woke up with his dick in my mouth?! HIS DICK IN MY MOUTH!! While i was unconscious, I immediately came to my senses and bit a good amount of his head dick off and he was bleeding. I know I did the right thing because he trying to take advantage of me. I didn’t have the strength to talk about it because he told me not to tell anyone or he’ll blackmail me.

I did get word he made a post over twitter saying “this girl bit my dick off and I started bleeding what tf is wrong with her”, also posting pictures to make his side of the story believable. that story is not true at all and he’s trying to victimize himself.

I pray and hope Ketchup_jr gets hold accountable for trying to sexually abuse me and I’m glad I bit your dick you piece of shit person. I trusted you and thought you were a decent person to take care of someone. I hope karma catches up to you.

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anonymous 2 hours ago