Okay firstly arrogance isn't attractive so she's downgrading herself he's not downgrading her. Men genuinely find arrogance unattractive in women. You might not believe it but men are judging your personality and your appearance not only your looks. So it's just a fact you might be reasonably attractive until you open your mouth and he cringes. Next you might as a woman think you are insanely attractive but only be a 4 compared to other women... and the girl he dates he might really think is more attractive... and he also might only be dating a 4 for easy sex with no intention of marriage which means he has no respect anyway... answer your question? Men like a woman that is femine, easy to get on with that's another thing. Boisterous women tend to be domineering so you know a major pain in the ass... what man wants a woman that is arrogant and controlling, nasty... of course he desires a nice sweet girl that is respectful that's the dream of every man and its logical it is human nature... it's weird if you think anything else... is it that complicated?

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anonymous 1 year ago

It's not arrogance is unattractive to men. Don't allow yourself to get gaslighted by men. Most men are very manipulative. They use tactics like that as a means of control to either brainwash women so they can feel the man is on their level and take a chance with him, or as a means to boost their own egos. A lot of men love finding opportunities to put women down in general because it makes them feel more powerful. Always remember that.

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Pepper 1 year ago

Okay second comment says "man is on their level..." so you are superior? This is your problem you think you are superior no wonder you have issues. Women aren't superior men and women both have value. Not Allen put women down actually in fact most gave no such desire. Some might let off steam as women do but in my experience it's very common for women to put men down are all women responsible? Now bad behaviour is bad behaviour that is all. Arrogance is unattractive to men ignore the childish second comment. Men like if you are pretty or attractive but Arrogance is a turn off for sure

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anonymous 1 year ago