What would you do?

Am I in the wrong for wanting to completely drop someone for something they only do at home or to their family?

So basically I became friends with this one girl and less than 4 weeks in, I basically find out that she has 2 older siblings, but when we met she told me she was an only child. She also lied about her age. When we met she said we are the same age. Turns out, she’s actually 5 years younger than me and the age she’s pretending to be is her sister’s. A lot of the stuff she said she grew up to relate to me was also a lie since again, she’s actually younger than what she said she was. I ended up meeting both her older siblings (brother and sister) and from the few times I chatted with them I realized she lowkey lied about some things in her life because those things actually happened to her siblings.

And if anyone tries to ask her about her siblings, she starts tweaking out. It’s fucking weird.

A mutual between me and this girl said that they just kinda ignore anytime she lies about her own family because “it’s not like it hurts us” and “we don’t know why she does that so we should stay out of it since it’s her business”. And I get that, but idk. I really don’t like liars and I feel like if she’s willing to lie about her own life and family, she’s probably capable of lying about more things.

But idk. Am I over thinking things? Should I just ignore it???? please give me your opinions

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anonymous Other December 12, 2025 at 8:28 pm 0 0