Stop putting people in boxes

So I figured this new ‘trend’ of ppl wanting to fit in by just calling everything witchy, whimsical, cottage core, me core…..it’s tiring for me and very sad to see where the world is heading with those labels. Like, just because my art style and clothing style looks a certain way doesn’t mean it’s my whole inner space or personality trait. Also, the way I behave is up to ME and me only. I believe I have the right to decide whether I want to be put into a box or not. I just LIKE being versatile and not being tied to one word or two words! Hell, give me an entire novel the size of Ulysses describing me for what my worth truly is instead of all those tiny miserable ‘trendscapes’ i swear I’ll resent myself by the age of 50 if I keep on letting others do this to me. I am not defined by one thing or one box!!! Leave my personality, self worth, acceptance, art style and clothing style ALONE!!! I’d rather die on my own made up hill than give into the entire ‘soft girl’ and other trends. I do not deserve to be beaten up like that, life is already awful enough as it is!!! (And plus I can NEVER wear skirts that go above the knee because my parents body shame me for it) why is everything so tied to age nowadays? Can’t I just be uncategorized and live a happy fulfilled life??? Yes I can, but I don’t NEED to be on the same level as everyone else and it doesn’t make me better because i’ve been very much excluded like more than half my life. Don’t think I consider myself superior. In fact, I have it worse. I will admit I’m one of the ultimate worse people you’ll ever encounter. No, don’t say that I pity myself. I only comfort myself because I’M THE ONLY ONE WHO CAN. No one else dares to show up because my ‘problems’ are too heavy and ‘i must solve them on my own’. Society????

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anonymous Friends September 21, 2025 at 10:44 am 0 0