Sister is a bitch

I think I actually hate having to host my sister at my house.

Every time she's here something kicks off and she always plays the victim/ innocent party and blames me and then has a massive strop about it and gives me the silent treatment.

Just today, we were in a shop looking for something *SHE* wanted to buy as a surprise for someone and because she wasn't happy with the options available, I had to take her to another shop which was absolutely fine.

However this meant that the person we were surprising arrived at my house before we were able to return, and somehow this is all my fault?

We found out this person had arrived earlier than expected when we arrived at the second shop and all my sister is done is had a strop and made me feel like shit like it's my fault we were not back at my house in time.

She then tries to play the card of "well I wanted to leave earlier but you didn't get me up", reader I went to get her up and she was still asleep so it's not like she was ready to go to the first shop and was waiting for me, yet once again this is all.my fucking fault.

Then when you throw in alcohol and she drinks she's fucking worse. I actually hate the person she is when she's drinking. She basically becomes a nasty, judgemental snob acting like she's better than everyone else and then judging you because of looks or relationship situation or age and you "should have found a guy by now but you need to lose weight and get fitter and learn how to dress and do you hair etc.".

I know hate is a strong word but I borderline do hate her when she's like this. I'm now in my room away from her trying not to cry so I don't ruin our friend's birthday celebration but I don't think I can handle another hour let alone day of being in my sister's presence when she acts like this.

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Jane Relationships June 07, 2026 at 7:05 am 0 0