Shitty 6 months

So, i am 22 f, my bf is 21 m, we have been together for 6 months now, our relationship has been super spotty for months now. But he recently asked me if his guy friend could move in, i wasn't able to tell him my opinion on it. I personally do not know the guy, and i do not trust new people (especially since my last relationship) I wanted to say no but if i do im a bitch, but now i wont be able to do whatever in my owm home, maybe im overreacting but like... seriously i just wanna be able to walk around in a bra and sweatpants but cant now. I'm pissed, tired, just sick of it already. I know that when this guy moves in my bf will no longer hangout with me, no longer show any affection. Proof bejng the last time one of his friends came over i caught my bf cheating, (looking at other girls, and watching porn) and now a different buddy is moving in and im terrified that hes gonna just do it again.. like am i crazy for being upset? I just wanted to live with my bf, just us, not have another person here. I know for a fuckin fact that our relationship cannot handle another person around.. kinda like american dad when Stan and Francine do the remodling for the house and it tears them apart. Its almost exactly like that, i know that this guy moving in is just gonna strain the relationship more, im so pissed and cant even do or say anything without my bf being mad.. plus on top of that my ptsd is getting worse, i saw my ex at the store and it scared me, and instead of helping me calm down my bf snapped at me.. like dude the guy pulled a "pew pew" on me before.. the dude was insane, and im supposed just be ok with it...? Like someone explain.. Like me and my now bf's relationship is usually good, but its been hard rn cause of the buddy moving in.. for like 3 days now ive been extremely pissed off and dont know what to do.

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Shadow Relationships January 24, 2026 at 5:34 pm 0 0