Sex strike

When women say they are on a sex strike etc. I think it has multiple aspects one is religious the other is mental health. So we know having sex is relaxing for men and I would argue women conditionally.

So for women if a guy dumps her thats stressful and affects her confidence but the sex itself she and he likes.

So its interesting as far as religion generally its always no sex until marriage but when you go to biblical times of sex we are literally talking about generally everyone married by some cases 12 or 13 but 16 in those days or 20 is like leaving it until late. The concept of go to university or get a trade then marry when you can afford to is a modern one and i would argue is intended in part to undermine religion and the institution of marriage.

Because it means often women arent even looking until 30 then it becomes soxially acceptable to wait and be promiscuous too because not settling and marrying. So age of consent is 16 in Australia and most places so can still have sex but marriage at 16 now is not so much the norm. And obviously below 16 is a crime. Which brings us to the mental health side. So you are going about reversing thousand of years of biology maybe millions and saying alright instead of having sex at 20 until you die or get bored you might have sex with more women but like you wont get it often and you wont get married, you might never have kids and even own your own home probably ever. Thats the mans side for women its similar but shes basically been rejecting guys or not taking then seriously for yrars and women mature like milk as crude as it sounds they get to 30 tops then they start to age lose their looks and you can say men do too but men are abit different in that women are after less specific things like also money or status, sure looks his vibe but its more complicated so he might be in his prime later or younger its far more complicated. But sure as he ages he may also have less options but the day of when both are looking is delayed but men typically want a woman from a young age still. So you get a large group of men who wont get women and so of course they think im here I go to gym work hard to earn a living im attractive tall but you reject me... so for years hes treated like a loser and having less or no sex. Then the woman ages now shes like feeling her biological clock wanrs kids and shes not a baddie like she once was. So she has been around fucking guys but only the top guys they have options and they decided they dont care for her but her view is they fucked her thats my stahdard... so the guy who is actually her standard at some point she may even go for in frustration but shes not hsppy about it so shes low effort and so is he because girks like her have just rejected him for 15 years now hes 30 and given up trying. Then maybe she hits 38 shes trying harder but hes decided shes too old for kids and he akways wanted kids so she asks him to be her boyfriend he says no. Thats where dating is today and mental heakth of men and women. And women are the largest customer of psychiatrists so this is affecting them.

Back to sex before marriage and religion so basically the whole thing its like a mental squeeze because the government creates a situation they delay marriage knowing people will be not able to take it any longer so they will have sex then it will create what we have today instead of your traditional have kids get married happy family. Because evolution says we are resisting our biological urges.

So really are men and women happier? No i dont know happy people in that situation. Im a single guy from time to time i see hookers. I don't want to i have to. The hookers can't be happy i mean they got to basically fuck anyone including the most revolting guys if they give them a few hundred dollars. So the men will fuck them to suppress their emotional baggage because they cant take it any longer the pressure especially if their job is high stress or maybe just gratification. So nobody is really happy. Ive went to brothels ive seen their body language of the women there is a performance aspect but also they get confidence from you liking them its sort of also a game. So the game is they do just enough to make you happy while trying to preserve their body. They will do the whole your dick is too big to go in fully and my back is too sore and they will maneavre their legs to stop you going all in. So the aspect of confidence ill get onto now. So last time i went to a brothel i had a prostitute and shes actually quite good looking but she does as i said so i dont come run out of time she asks to extend time i left... then i walked in the front door to see the reception. She noticed and was very curious now either she thought i was complaining about her or she was upset in her ego or felt rejected because i asked to see another girl to finish. I never criticised her or made fun of her but there was an extended delay and the girl i asked for eventually comes out sge sort of praises her coworker in passing i didn't say anything critical we continued until i came eventually but in both cases they really werent letting me in properly in the second case she did abit but even she was suppressing. So in my view i witnessed a sense of the act going into emotions because as part of the sex we are allowed to lick pussy now in hindsight thats insane shes a hooker like i seriously hope i dont catch anything on my mouth but she was dripping wet... so n9t saying frim me given her role thaars a big assumption but nonetheless i think she felt overwhelmed with emotions affecting her confidence now having sex with me and possibly or probably other guys too for her shift will contribute to that in my view but i think its real in that particular case. However, i think there is also a coldness from these women but its like more about theur confidence then them saying i like him its like i gain confidence from validation because without it i don't make money. I think also she might have been upset too because previously i chose a different girl so im referring to the girk i kind of dumped so that night I saw ger didnt cum so got a different girl right but a previous night like a month before i go there chose a different girl. I think its possible she remembered felt rejected. I think women find rejection maybe harder then even men. I as a man believe men hate rejection and fear it but i think women its even worse for them because they genuinely are brought up to be shocked any man rejects them but men have preferences. So for prostitutes i think its a real ego attack because they can't really reject men but they get rejected constantly.

So really everyone is miserable. I probably wont go to either of those hookers again but its entirely possible i go to the brothel in a moment of weakness

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anonymous Body October 05, 2026 at 9:48 am 0 0