Partner not doing much

My partner and I had to move back to our parents homes due to an issue on his side. And we've been living apart for 2 years. I am currently studying for an exam i do not wish to take but i want to livr with him so. He has a mentor coaching him and has people waiting for him to open his business hasnt done it.And he stopped doing lives because he doesnt like it and now he barely does anything. Yes he does things for me, and buys me things but I feel like Im the only one consistently working towards what i thought our goal was. And my exam is in a few days i wanted to postpone it but he said do it to see what i need to work on. So fine. Im doing it im studying my butt off and he wants to be intimate and im like im doing this for us. Then today he was in bed until 11 and im like hey dont you have and i stopped myself but he said to say it so I said dont you have work to do? I want us to live together. and he told me i need to try harder. Meanwhile all he typically has to do at home is his own laundry. While i have to cook, clean the downstairs, care for animals that are and arent mine. And I helped him and someone else with their business.

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anonymous Relationships April 01, 2026 at 12:21 pm 0 0