Niece needs some humility!

My niece is so fuckin' ridiculous! She's pushing thirty years old, isn't married, no kids. She is working on yet another degree, and taking all these ridiculous useless French language classes she'd paying an obscene amount of money for! She's not French. Out Family isn't French. She' never even been there and never will be! She isn't focusing at all on marriage, or kids. She isn't even trying to seriously date a man and get married, but today was posting all this nonsense about houses around different places in France, and was talking to my other niece about her plans to visit there. All this stuff about how she's "seriously" considering living there!

I told her how utterly ridiculous, stupid, naive, and immature she is being! Instead of focusing on moronic pipe dreams she never will fulfill, and have no meaning or value in her life, she needs to put that energy into finding a man! If she had a dude in her life, she wouldn't be fixated all this dumb shit! She is TOO OLD to go back to college for yet another degree, in some pointless thing she'll never use. She makes enough money as it is, and if she would just GET MARRIED, she wouldn't have to worry about making more money and having to go back to school in her thirties! I told her that NO MAN is going to want some woman that old, who isn't even trying to settle down, has no intention of marriage and kids, and instead carries on about college like she's twenty years old, and talks about going to live in some foreign place she's never even been to. It is so...airheaded and shows how unanchored and unstable she is, it is all because she isn't married! This is what happens when females don't get married early on in life! She should have been married for nearly ten years now, and be going on her third kid! Instead, she lives in a shitty little apartment, still has roommates, isn't even talking to men even though our family has tried to set her up and she works with a lot of single, available, dues, and she doesn't even act like she is sad she doesn't have kids!

She is so entirely selfish, and acting like a twit! I told her that the family is sick of this shit. Every holiday get together, ever Christmas, every wedding, every shower, every birthday., ever Summer BBQ for the 4th, we ask her what her plans are, and it is always going on about college, or French, or some novel she thinks she is writing, or some plan to travel....it is never focused on the important, real-life things! We tell her that next time, she better bring a guy with her, but she never does. My brother and his wife, are watching my kids, my our sister's kids, various cousins and their kids, they are all getting married, starting families...and my poor brother and SIL, don't even have one grandbaby from her yet, their ONLY child! I told her that she is crushing them to death over this! She says she isn't "obligated" to get married and have kids for anyone else! That is always her answer, and no matter how I try to beat it into her head that, YES, in a way she IS, how else are babies going to be born to this family? She still won't listen!

Our family deserves more little souls coming in. We deserve to watch our family grow. The seniors in our family, need to know that our family legacy and name is being carried on and they need to know as many of these young new generations as possible because they pass on, but here is my niece.....totally lost in her head, lost in a make-believe, fantasy world! No one in our family has ever been outside of the U.S and we have NO need to! I don't know why she thinks she is too damn good for the United States, but we all told her that if it isn't here, in our part of our country, then she don't need it! She needs to stop acting like she is above all of this, and eat some humble pie! She needs to be proud to be an American girl, and go find an American husband to make American babies with!

I have been appalled all day at his crap about buying a home in France! She doesn't have any means to go there, she knows no one...it is totally crazy! And none of us want her marrying anyone but a good, decent, red-blooded, American man! We don't want her with some limpy, weak, pansy-ass, scrawny smelly French guy!

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Kyle Home August 03, 2026 at 4:35 pm 0 1