lying in relationships

Ive been feeling really low recently !!!!!!!! and I don't know wether its the right thing to tell my partner or not.. its not in question that I feel comfy around her - of course I do. but I'm doing things that she won't agree with and idk if its better to preserve our 'good patch' or tell her the truth. I relapsed in self harm a few nights ago and it's killing me not telling her. she struggled deeply with sh in her teen years so I don't want to bring that up for her when its not needed. I'm worried that she'll worry too much about me !!!! I'm okay, I just act recklessly a lot of the time and do things I regret. I feel so much happier when I'm with her and I don't think these things, but I'd hate to become dependant on her for happiness. which is why I'm not sure what I should do :-((((((((writing it here makes me feel less insane

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anonymous Relationships January 14, 2026 at 1:31 pm 0 0