Kinda Heartbroken

I have to post this here as I can't really talk to anyone.
It's not that I don't have friends or a family, I just don't want anyone I know to judge me, my partner or worry about me.

My GF and I had a row last night, the subject of which was her perceived total lack of interest in my feelings, my likes and dislikes, my hobbies, my life in general really - pretty much anything outside of our relationship.

This row raged via text for a couple of hours and the main point I was trying to get across was just how miserable she makes me when she does nothing for me. I don't mean sexual stuff, I don't mean presents or anything like that, I mean simply... She does not seem to care about my feelings, she seems to believe that affection is transactional and the slightest form of it - from a text message saying "I love you - you got this" to a hug is too much for her if "she doesn't feel like it".

Now, I don't claim to understand all of this and I know she has ADHD - but sometimes she just entirely retreats into herself and totally neglects me. No matter whether I've asked for something or no, I know I won't get it so I don't bother.

I'm not perfect, I can be an arsehole but the one thing that I will always do is put my hands up and own up to my mistakes and the one thing I will never do is knowingly make someone feel neglected, unwanted and unloved.

This argument has culminated in her telling me to "never go near her again".

Another thing about me is now much I enjoy Malicious Compliance. Even when she does eventually contact me, I will not actually go near her.

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Isabella Linton Relationships August 14, 2025 at 11:46 am 0 1