Kids being told stupid stuff in schools!

So fuckin' sick of all these ridiculous "counselors" at my kid's school telling me that I shouldn't make my daughter hug or sit in the lap of our great-uncle, grandfather, and cousins that come visit! Making it seem like it is some predatory pedo behavior or something is so insulting! Those men are not like that, and that is just what family is SUPPOSED to do. When family visits they want to see one another, and they should want to show affection to a relative! You don't tell a OLD man, who fought in a war, has diabetes, fought cancer, worked in churches his whole life, and earned respect in this family that he can't get a hug, or spent time with his great-niece because, "it is incest" or "she is uncomfortable!"
She wasn't raised to be uncomfortable! She was raised to RESPECT this family and she is NOT going to talk back and be hateful and rude and have an attitude to anyone! She doesn't get to say she isn't doing something that we tell her to do! She is a KID, and she is going to be sweet, nice and loving, and she IS going to go up and give hugs, kisses and sit by her family when they come to visit! All this crap that these therapists and these "professionals" and "educators" are filling these kid's heads with in the schools is ridiculous! I AM THE MOM, I MAKE I DECIDE how things are going to be in my family, NOT a bunch of people I don't give a shit about and mean NOTHING to us and never will! These counselors are idiots! I don't care how educated they are or how much money they make. They aren't any better than anyone else in our family and they sure the hell aren't smarter than ME and what I KNOW is best for MY kid! I always grew-up sitting in that man's lap. I grew-up showing off my new dresses. I grew-up singing songs for him, and my daughter is going to as well! He isn't a "creeper" as some crazy idiot at her school said to her, and she isn't going to go around telling everyone that or talking to him like that! She has something else coming if she thinks she gets to say "no" to ME or talk back to ME. I don't put up with that crap! Some people do with their kids, but I sure the hell don't, and let these imbeciles at her school call me or tell me they are going to call CPS or whatever and turn me in, I'd like to see them try! They are going to be sorry when I sue the shit out of the school district for that! Schools need to STAY OUT of kid's personal lives and OUT of the home. They are there to teach kids the basic stuff and that is it.

My kid does not get to treat her family that way and smart off and act like she's too good to be around us or doesn't have to be nice to everyone! I told her that she needs to make this family happy and not to hurt their feelings! I told the counselor that I expect her to go out of her way to make everyone feel good about themselves and to be sweet all the time, not hateful and snotty! I don't know who the hell these counselors think they are telling my kid she doesn't have to listen to me and she can be that way to her own family and doesn't have to go do what she doesn't feel like doing because she thinks she is above that! I don't know where she gets off thinking any of this or that she is somehow some little princess or rich girl that doesn't have to be part of this family! We don't act that way in OUR family. And to act like the men in our family are a bunch of creeps really piss me off! They have never done one thing to make my kid think that and they have never acted that way. OUR family doesn't do that!

I am half tempted to take her out of that fucking school! I am going to talk to every single person in charge there up to the school board if I have to. I will not have some counselor sneaking MY kid out of class to ask them a bunch of stupid shit out of nowhere and then try to convince them something sickening is happening to them when WE are NOT like that in OUR family and never have been. If my kid has something going on she better comes to ME about it, not run off and tell some teacher or counselor at her school about it! And I will know if my kid had something happen to them because I pay attention to my kid unlike all these other parents who act like their kid is perfect and pretend nothing is going on when it is! I am not going to put up with my kid becoming a little liar or start to think all this stuff is happening to her that isn't, or think she something bad or unfair happened to her or that she was violated all because I told her she had to go give a hug and sit in her great-uncle's lap while he is visiting, or has to go give her cousins a hug, or her grandfather a kiss when we go see him! This is how kids turn gay! Telling a girl to be afraid of men and that all men are bad and do sick things, and to avoid them! I am not standing by and watching my kid be turned into some gay person! We are NOT like that in this family either! We have never had gay people in our family and we aren't going to start now!

I told my daughter that would hurt the feelings of every single person in this family if she turned out to be gay. That would crush her grandmother and our great-grandmother to pieces! They probably wouldn't survive, and we'd all be humiliated!

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Proud Aries mama! School August 19, 2026 at 5:33 pm 0 2