Jump back on the horse

So I'm coming back like jidt some background. I am 193cm tall, alwayd been athletic good looking guy until a few years ago i got fat, i couldmt get work was broke... then got a really toxic job was facing harassment from my boss i put up with it 2 years did a second job. I lost 34kg... so now I'm pretty fit again and hooc looking i think but my confidence is still down. I'm finding it hard to break the ice with women I just got to jump back on that horse or more specifically an attractive looking woman to boost my confidence but its hard because women expect a man to say the right things. Like what should I do? Hoping for advice but not from that scott guy. So I am actually starting to get shredded but not quite I got like 5kg left for that. So I am working now in healthcare is more reksxed job earning okay money I just crave abit of attractive pussy-cat. I feel girls are noticing me which I havent felt since before I was fat but unlike before ive lost my confidence I'm abit older from the experience, was fat and I really was kept down like I stood up to them but before that I was unemployed a few years. I really went through hell and I have forced my way out of it but it is a confidence thing now before I was pretty confident and actually kind of a dick sometimes not always just a young guy. But now i think im borderline a saint but ive really lost thst confidence to approach women especially if I like them romantically or socially. What do I do? This is again a question only for helpful people not trolls ie so scott font commemt, no jerk comments or hate, no commmemtd about trump also

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anonymous Crushes August 02, 2025 at 5:41 pm 0 0