It’s your fault

Been with boyfriend for 5 years
He get’s angry when he is interrupted
He threw his phone at the wall because I interrupted him (totally mature for a 35)
When he wants to hear what’s bothering me and he says he wants the truth, I said people on instagram that look prettier than me, he somehow turns it around and makes it all about him and how I hurt his feelings by making a light hearted comment about his weight the night before but really it was me being jealous and sad that I wasn’t as pretty. I made it very clear from the start of the relationship that it was a condition that he had to lose weight. He has done none of the sort.

Following excuses

- Covid
- change/new job
- my own s***de attempt ( yeah he is really blaming me for his current weight )
- the 4 months after my attempt he has been looking after me all the time
- having type 2 diabetes
- lack of sleep
- Migraine
- Moving house
- that he will only go to the gym if I go with him ( wow I have to babysit a guy into losing the weight he wants to the lose himself ) Make it make sense , does he actually want to lose weight or not ? He understands I can take a while to lose weight but it’s better to stay now rather than never .


I don’t know understand how a man can say he wants to lose weight but only will go to the gym if his girlfriend goes . If you want to lose weight that badly you would go the gym with or without your girlfriend. If you really wanted to lose weight you would do intermittent fasting but you don’t you just eat the same amount of food as before .

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anonymous Relationships June 04, 2025 at 8:11 pm 0 0