It's MY FUCKING BABY and MY FUCKING BIRTH

Cry all you want, you ARE NOT getting your way this time!

I could have this baby any time. For the ENTIRE pregnancy we had everything planned: where the first child will stay, who will be there, how we'll announce, what we need before we go home. The plan has been locked down for AT LEAST 6 months. And at the last second you start whining that you:

1. Won't be in the delivery room
2. Won't waste your time in the waiting room because we aren't daying anything until baby is out

GET A GRIP. I don't CARE if you're ill and think it would be so special to stare up my cooch while I go through labor hell, all while I have to listen to you boss the staff around because things aren't the way you had your babies 30 years ago. I don't CARE that this "may be your last chance to do it." For once, IT ISN'T ABOUT YOU.

I sympathize with your illness! I am sorry it will once day make you too sick to live! It's sad that you may not live to see other grandkids! But it does NOT mean you get a free pass to have MY BIRTH EXPERIENCE be about YOU!!! Everything is ALWAYS about you, your appointments, your feelings, your preferences, your comfort. And we all abide because we love you. But I AM THE PATIENT THIS TIME. YOU WILL MEET THE BABY WHEN I AM READY AND NOT BEFORE

And so help me God if you pressure your son into letting you override my wishes then I am DONE with you. DONE. We already pulled away this year and I know you noticed, don't push me into no contact because boundaries of every kind mean NOTHING to you!!

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anonymous Other August 19, 2025 at 6:29 pm 1 1