Irritating partner

My partner and I welcomed our third child 8 months ago. I’m breastfeeding and he still doesn’t sleep through the night and I’m the only one that gets him back to sleep with every wake up every couple of hours. He never hears him cry or wake up so he sleeps the whole night undisturbed (lucky him). When I put him to sleep because he feeds to sleep and my partner never even offers to try and put him down either may I add. When he wakes up which recently has been about an hour and a half after I’ve put him to bed. My partner will go and rock him back to sleep (that’s about the only wake up he can do because the baby isn’t hungry yet at this point cause he’s not long eaten). He’ll go off and I’ll message how’s it going etc. No response, so I have to go and check and I 9/10 find him fast asleep and when he’s asleep he’s dead to the world which is the worst fucking thing when you are putting a baby to sleep. I’ve found the baby with his face in his chest, crook of his arm, fallen off of him completely onto the bed thank God and the man is still asleep. I’ll wake him and he barely wakes up and falls right back to sleep. I’ve expressed my concern and atp he should know that is unsafe it’s not his first time being a parent but nothing ever changes and I have just about had enough. He is never apologetic for anything he does as well. I just feel like when it comes to the baby I have to do and sort everything and I’m fucking tired of feeling like a single parent in a relationship. Tmi but I feel so turnt off by this man and his lack of effort in this home that I just don’t even wanna be intimate with him. We rarely have time but even when we do I just want to sit in silence be left alone. I don’t feel the same about him at all anymore. I used to be so in love with this man that thinking about him made my heart almost hurt and now I just don’t think much about him only the things that piss me off. I still love him but I’ve just had enough and can’t get past his behaviour right now

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anonymous Relationships May 01, 2024 at 4:19 am 0 0