Listen girly there are good things about being a boy and bad things just as there is good and bad ti be a girl. I guarantee you that the good things about being a boy end after about high school and even during. I'm a man and I remember the way the boys would bully each other I was lucky I was big so the bully's if they tried to do it to me I'd hit them but lots of other guys were relentless I know a guy who tried to commit suicide 20 times. You say it's all fun not really you see what you want. Boys are expected to cop all the crap if you do that to a girl you are bad, how could you? I mean that's how they see it. Boys are expected to hit on girls and often humiliate themselves because girls rarely make it easy they can make it difficult while the boys heart is being torn out as he wonders if she is just making fun of me questioning his self worth as a man and he has to suck it up if he complains he us a bitch. If a girl complains everyone has sympathy they want to fix that. I don't say it's bad but it is as it is there are parts of being a boy that are hard. Tonight my girlfriend abused me for an hour because I suggested she might be cheating I guess I was wrong but if she did that and I abused her like that well wouldn't happen because I'm a man. That's just how it is you don't need to whine about it just try to make the most of what you are be happy with it. I am but for sure I'm not always happy I'm under pressure like anyone else. Men in my experience are probably under more but sometimes girls can be too. It's not as easy as just saying it's easy to be a boy. Your parents want to keep you inside to keep you safe because there are freaks put there who would attack you and do horrible things they do it because they care the world being unfair has nothing to do with you being a girl I guarantee you it can be just as unfair to everybody else or most people at least. Just in other ways. You are a girl so you only see what is unfair to girls but when a man sees a girl he thinks look at her isn't she wonderful she must have such a great life that's what he thinks I'm not kidding. Because his life probably sucks. My girlfriend she is really very beautiful but part of me couldn't understand why she didn't dump me well what I mean is my life basically sacked I had no job when I met her not much money, I had little prospects, lots of girls would not think much of me I'd say. But she just doesn't seem to care I mean of course she wants me to do things but she is such an understanding person and I just couldn't understand that because usually this is what I thought. I always thought men had to be understanding towards women but it usually wasn't the other way around. I think that's fair to say so I think it's not how you say kid. It can be hard for anyone gender doesn't decide happiness.

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anonymous 3 years ago