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I am surrounded by people I love yet I can't do anything to help them. I watch as they constantly hurt themselves and everyone around them. One of my friends is currently in a relationship with a guy. This guy is kind, loving, and thoughtful..... 8% of the time. Every other moment he is trying to please himself. My friend, she is one of the nicest people you will ever meet. Sure, she has her problems( underage drinking, sexual tendencies, and other things like that) but she is kind and caring to everyone around her, except herself. Every day I watch her go about thinking that she is worthless. I want to tell her that she is the greatest person in the world, I want to tell her that she is worth so much more than that peice of sh¡t. Sometimes I wonder if she would even believe me. Of course if I told her what I thought it would bring up other problems so I have to be careful.

Another problem is that I am not really accepted by my whole family. I am omnisexual and gender fluid. Both of my parents think that that is a sin and I am just ill. Thankfully my sister is not homophobic or transphobic or anything like that. She on more than one occasion has stated that the only problem she would have is getting used to having a sister. She doesn't care about sexuality or gender identity, she loves everyone for who they are.
Also I apologize for any grammarical errors, spelling errors, and/or typos.

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Nerd Other May 03, 2026 at 12:28 am 2 0