Husbands says I am mean

Husband and I have different bedrooms because he snores like a chainsaw and sleeps like a starfish in a typhoon. On weekends when I get to sleep in, and when I am still sleeping, he climbs into my bed (waking me) saying “Your bed is more comfortable than mine”. And proceeds to put his hand in the waistband of my sleeping pants and promptly falls asleep. Within 2 mins the loud snoring begins and every 5-10 seconds his hand shakes or fingers move. Legs kicking, foot shaking. The bed is a circus of unrest. If I tell him I would like to keep sleeping but can’t with all the activity and ask if he could finish his sleep in his room, I’m “mean” and we’re immediately in fight mode. If I get up to go to the couch, I’m “rude”, because “I came here to be with you”. Presently on the couch because he hasn’t changed the sheets on his bed in over a month. Signed - Mean wife.

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Mean Relationships January 18, 2026 at 10:21 am 0 0