High school

I’m still young so i already know that once I get older this won’t be a problem, but until then, I have this problem:

I hate people who force themselves into your life. I hate people who force you to be their friends and then the school reinforces that behavior because “why AREN’T you guys friends? What are you? A bully?”

No, but I should be allowed to choose who the hell I want to be friends with or not.

I’ve always had people in my life that try to control me and force me to be their friend when I make it clear I don’t want that. I’m fine being classmates and just being generally polite and respectful, but that doesn’t mean we NEED to be close friends.

Recently this girl in school started following me around and it started to feel like she was my stalker because she even happily told everyone she has photos and videos she took of me. I never met her before that. I confronted her and told her to stop and that it wasn’t okay.

She ended up crying to some people I recently just met to make them not want to be my friend (she’s trying to make me look like a mean girl) and she told on me to a bunch of teachers I don’t even have classes for. It ended up escalating and no matter what I said, the dean was like “you are going to be nice to her, you guys are going to hang out, and that’s final” all because my school doesn’t want their reputation to be brought down by a possible bullying problem by me.

This is literally so stupid.

The girl has a younger brother who even admitted that she was just faking crying and he apologized to me about his sister which is nice, but it doesn’t change the fact that I’m being forced to be friends with a girl who acts like a crazy stalker to me.

And now, whenever I’m just being normal / myself, she gets mad because I’m not acting in a way she imagined I would. It’s so fucking crazy!

And there’s no way I can even talk to my parents about this because all they’re gonna focus on is the fact that I was sent to the dean’s office and that I got into that much trouble. To them, the only important things are my grades and obeying teachers / school faculty so I can graduate.

I fucking hate this so much! This bitch is ruining my life in school! She’s annoying, she’s crazy, and slowly, I’m watching people judge me for “being her friend” when I didn’t even choose this for myself!

Idk what’s wrong with people. I could never imagine forcing someone to be my friend if it’s clear they don’t wanna fuck with me like that.

I can’t wait to graduate and forever leave this school and this stupid bitch behind!

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G.G. School September 10, 2026 at 2:19 pm 0 0