I fail to see the part where her killing herself is your fault. She decided to stuff her face which led to you leaving and then her killing herself. It all goes back to her choices. You deserve better. Move on and find someone better. If the roles where reversed she would move on and not think twice.

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Benn there and left 2 weeks ago

Well it's quite a decision to decide to throw away a whole relationship because she's overweight. You might want to keep in mind that almost any woman will gain weight if you stay together long enough. Around 37 or 38 women's bodies hang onto fat more no matter how they eat or exercise.

Blaming your own weight gain on her is just plain wrong. You two aren't conjoined twins. You want to go hiking or get to the gym, put on your shoes and go. That's not her responsibility.

But if you don't value the relationship any more than this, she probably knows that and isn't any happier than you are. If you're done, even for lousy reasons, you're done. Break up with her and if she threatens to take her life, tell her not to say that unless she means it because you're going to call 911 and get her involuntarily committed for her own safety. My ex knew I was going to initiate a breakup and tried to tell me that meant sui time, and I was like, look, you can leave on a train in your good coat and go back to your apartment, or you can leave for Kaiser Permanente in custody, but you're going to leave here, alive. Nobody died. My ex left on a train in a nice coat, and married somebody else a year later. I met someone two years later myself. Neither one of us wants to get married but we've been together 10 years so same difference at this point.

Good luck.

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anonymous 2 weeks ago

Damn homie you dating a whole fucking whale, dump her ass and I hope she becomes anorexic.

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A$AP 2 weeks ago

Okay well have you thought about fat freezing or liposuction? Sure expensive but I hear it works. That way she can be a lazy slob and still improve her physic you win and don't have to dump her.

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anonymous 2 weeks ago